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Men and Women work very differently in how they fall in love. Both are flooded with hormones which is what drives the descent into the abyss called love. Hormones are half the story, while instinct and senses make up the other half.This is why there is a tendency to fall in love or escalate the relationship too fast, because this can all be overwhelming, like being on a high from a narcotic, (love is a drug lol)Attraction That Makes You want to Date ThemFor women, while they like looks, they care so much less about them than a Man. They look for confidence, charisma, masculinity and the nature of the man.For Me, it's mostly visual and audio lol, but normally limited to the face. The remainder of her body... so long as she is fit and healthy, she gets a tick in the box. Normally for me it goes in this order, 1. Eyes, 2. Smile, 3. Hair, 4. Voice, 5. Attentiveness (mostly through body language). Then I look for clues that she respects and values herself, (how she dresses modestly showing a hint but leaving the rest up to the Imagination is key).Buileing attraction.. if I can make a girl laugh and hold a conversation with her it's pretty much a certainty. Especially if she has a sense of humour.
Lol TLDR; Yes, the first impression is everything and lets me know yes or no.
Very often I would know from the first impression. I tended to go with girls who were more natural looking and didn't wear a lot of jewelry or make up, who were down to earth and seemed to have a good intelligence and were knowledgeable. Much of that you can pick up on quickly.
Yes! If he's dressed almsot like a slob or poor hygiene or bad language. Cusses like a sailor. Even when he doesn't make enough eye contact. I know today people never make eye contact because they feel like its awkward or whatever. When i was a kid, i was taught to always make eye contact with someone you are talking to. And I find it weird when I am looking the person in their eyes and they can't even make contact with me once. It makes me think they are insecure and shy. It's not a good first impression.
If I screen out a guy - it usually is permanent - if it is related to something he cannot change. I have a very big head and I want a husband with a skinny head so I don't have complications in child birth so if I see a guy with a wide head - he will be screened out. On the other hand if a guy is too skinny or too fat - I might have an initial idea - but that can go away if I learn he has a good personality.
@jennifer_bloom a big head😂 Ms Bloom I've never heard or thought of that
Yeah, i’m Unique, or can be sometimes.
I think the intuition tells the person whether he/she finds the other one physically attractive and based upon that very preliminary assessment, it is in general easy to make a decision.Now, there are those that do not care so much about the looks but more about the character, personality and intellect and in that case, no, the tendency is the opposite.If I were into dating, I would make sure that I check the compatibility before committing for a date.
KindaI think more when you’re youngerSo yes because you can formulate quickly if thats the type of person you like. But then i think you eventually become aware of personality you are looking forFor instance. Was talking to this total babe. Ass to die for Yet she was so boring and i only realized on dates 2 and 3 ishLike boring lol legit Her good looks wasn't enough even though at first im like yup. I could get use to this 😂
Nope got to backround check them first , i do my own private investigation, if they come back clean ok which means no BF/Husband (i run into a lot of Women hitting on me with So's), not a thot, doesn't have hella kids, no wanna be gangster dudes that were ex's and get jealous im to old to catch fades it's immature tho i will cause im with it but just rather not lol
For the most part. Maybe not dating, but at least if I would say yes if he asks me out. Considering I’m married now, I know for sure the answer is always no.
Not really, only when I get to know them will I know whether I want to date them or not. First impressions can be deceiving. Everyone tries to put their best foot forward when they meet someone for the first time.
Usually no. First impressions can be deceiving. It takes a few dates to see for certain if you really find the person attractive or date worthy. Or at least that's how it works for me.
I think it takes time.Most guys im not sure if i like them or not for months, then something finally clicks. Then some its immediate. It just depends
It takes time to fully no somebody and that is the good and the bad.
Yeah, I usually fall for a person pretty fast. I’ve heard from people before that they fell for my eyes so I think it’s common that a lot of people fall into love quickly.
i think initially you do. physical attraction comes first. i've known plenty of girls who have dated ugly guys because they got to know them and admitted that they would never date them but did.
Not quite, I would need to get to know someone first before I would know whether or not I would wish to date her.
Not really. I have a 3 date rule (back when i was single) if the girl can make it to 3 dates with me, they are worth my time. Only 8 women in my entire history made it that far.
Yes. But I've fallen for someone I never thought I'd ever be interested in, she not even my type. Her body isn't eye popping amazing ether.
I do, I’m intuitive. I can tell it a man is a good fit for me or not.
I can definitely tell if I'm interested but I'll have to get to know you a little better before I know if I want to date you
Well, even my perception of their looks can change if their personality is good, and that takes a while to judge.So no.
Usually but sometimes someone just rubs you the wrong way first but is actually cool
Not always but usually get a certain vibe how she is after 10 minutes.
No. I need to know more about someone before I know if I would be interested in them or not.
Yes i go by how they act , talk , their actions on whether i want be with them.
Yes. I fell in love with current partner coz we both love nature
I know if I might want to date her by how approachable she is, but I don't know till we talk.
From a first impression it's hard to say. Things have a fun way to work out.
My boyfriend knew from the start
I think the majority of the time!
I'd say about 9 out of 10 times, I do.
Usually know by first date.
Yes I believe that I can
Yeah I can usually tell pretty much immediately.
Most times I do.
Ofc and nervous😂
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