3 mo

Should I pursue him?

My on and off ex, we have been up and down for nearly 5 years now. We seem to make each other happy when we are around one and other, we are quite hot tempered however and this leads to arguments. He likes to flirt with other chicks, even when I was with him now I dont know if this was to make me jealous or because he likes attention.. either way it isn't good for me.

A few months ago I got into a fight at a party over him, as he was flirting with another girl and trying to wind me up. I know this because he seems to be attracted to my mean and sassy side.

I really like him, but I can't carry on with the lack of trust and lack of commitment coming my way, I need to be able to trust him. I feel rather used by him..
Should I pursue him?
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