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Tell him you're not interested and stop having male best friends. This is a common problem and I keep repeating the same thing, so pardon me if I sound harsh.Males and females are simply too different to be friends, let alone best friends. Women especially suffer from this, thinking, that they'll never have their 'best friend' hit on them. Sooner or later all o them will do that unless they find someone better.You should understand, that by keeping a male friend, that does not interest you at all relationship wise, you are unknowingly hurting them.Please find a female best friend or at least a male best friend, who you at least kinda sorta like.Reading about this problem again and again is getting ridiculous.
Its impossible. Tell him how you feel, otherwise he'll always believe that their may be a chance. I got friendzoned my senior year in high school by my prom date, I wanted to be more, but she said she didn't want to be in a relationship will going to college, so I just kept in touch with her hoping and respecting her wishes. Then a year later she is in a relationship which in college. It hurt so much.Don't lead him on. Tell him plain and straight. After that its his decision to was his time hoping things change later.
Not possible. His feelings would always be hurt but you do it anyway.
Just be honest with him, in a kind and considerate way. If you lie to him, it will damage the friendship, and he deserves the truth. You may not be able to not hurt him, but it will be better in the long run to be honest with him. Again, not brutally honest, but definitely honest in a caring manner.
For a lot of people, maybe most, it is hard to have close friends with the sex to which they are attracted. I have some female friends with whom I am just that and we will never slide into romantic inclinations. I have had other female friends who started to catch feelings and, when I explained I was not interested in them in that way, they could not deal and ended the friendship.
You can’t. It’s basically a message he will interpret as “you’re really nice and I like hanging out with you but you’re so ugly and/or not masculine that the idea of doing anything sexual with you, even though it would feel good, is gross”. That’s making it sound as bad as possible, but that’s how he will feel. In any case your choices are whether to be clear so he can get over it or drag it out.
'Im fucked up
I dont understand why you feel the need to preempt him from possibly making a sexual advance sometime in the future. I mean, how many people do you have you turned down for sex before sex was ever mentioned? I think you should stop thinking so damn much about it and enjoy your best friend without making shit seem weird. Lol
by the way I just want to make clear that even though i commented on your question i won't let you suck my dick. Sorry, I just dont think of you that way. I hope you'll understand...😏
No bs. If you tell him you’re not interested the best way to do it is to 1. tell him (not interested) 2. And give him your real reason why you’re not. He’s going to be hurt period. It’s in human nature to feel something with every interaction.
You can hint it at him by telling him your prefrences in men and what you enjoy looking at. If he looks completly different Im sure he´ll get it.
"How do I tell him that he's just not hot enough to fuck me but he can still serve me in other ways without hurting his feelings?"Good question. Good question. . .
If he’s at all invested in you and interested then you’re going to hurt his feelings. Just be honest and direct with him. The sooner you do it the better off.
If he likes you as more than a friend then you will hurt him. That's a given. You need to accept that. But he also needs to accept that he'll never be with you.Also, are you aromantic as well?
You cannot. Lying will make things worse in the end. Just tell the truth.
Just tell him the truth. Tell him you dont feel sexually attracted to him, and dont want to be his girlfriend. He should get over it eventually.
Well you really can't if he likes you he likes you can't change that but make sure you don't just stop talking to him after you tell him it'll make him feel like you feel wierded out around him
Just flat out say, no guy likes being pulled around and being tricked into thinking they got a shot with someone when they don't that'll piss guys off
You can't, it's a big insult because you don't think he has any value in your life. End the friendship
You can't. Just cut him loose so he can find someone that will reciprocate his desire.
Not really going to happen, so just try to minimize the hurt.
say, your like a brother to me. shit hurt, but it works
If you're going to send him off to the friend zone, you should at least send him off happy. Give him a BJ first.
Be upfront, direct and honest about it.It's much better to hurt a little now than a lot later on.
Don't bs him. If he's really your best friend he deserves the truth.
You can't. He is also not your friend and neither are you his. Just end the travesty.
You can't... and don't be a bitch and string him a long
He probably would not know what that meant. He would think you want sex with him.
Tell him that you care about him as a friend but you dont think you're good enough
There's no possible way you can. You're about to lose your friend forever.
Loo that guy gonna pursue you harder if you tell him your a sexual. Most men will respect you if you tell them your not attracted to them. But you like them as a friend. Just be honest dont be scared.
Just talk about other guys. Tell him how you like other guys who look the opposite of him. He will realize thats he is not your type and back off
I think his feelings will get hurt either way.
Just tell him that you value his friendship and would not want to ruin what you have going right now
You can't. hurt feelings are part of rejection. just do it
You can't. He's gonna be hurt.
Don't put him in the friend zone, let him go
Impossible, can't be done.
No such thing as "just friends"
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