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Being well put together, mentally stable, and responsible, evidently. And overly sexual, too soon. I'm totally fine with sex. More the better, faster the better. But, if a chick is really aggressive physically right at the start, it makes my brain go https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4F4qzPbcFiAI only feel comfortable about it if I'm the one initiating and escalating. If she's doing it, I can't trust it. Sounds insecure as fuck, and lame as fuck, but I guess it's because of past experience. Women don't flirt openly sexually like that. If they do, it's a trap; they want something from you; or they're just testing something. More often than not.Unless you're the type of guy that women go crazy for naturally, and you get women flinging themselves at you all the time. If not, it's a trap; they want something from you; or, they're just testing something. Most likely.
Well put together, mentally stable and responsible is turn off for you? :o
All evidence points to that, yes.
Care to elaborate why those three qualities are turn off?
Sure. Elaboration is my forte. In a word, excitement. Possibly the same kind of thing as why chicks go for bad boys, at times. Nice girls are boring. Chaos is exciting. It's a challenge. It's just so easy to desire. It feels more real. There's also a dangerous element to crazy that is strangely seductive. Mmmm. Maybe I also feel like broken chicks need me more. Like, a stable, well put together woman. Okay. What does she need? She's fine. How am I needed in that arrangement? It's like I completely ignore the stable ones and automatically zone in on the crazy ones--even if I don't know they're crazy and broken. I swear.I rationally understand that well put together, mentally stable, and responsible women are preferable on multiple vectors. But the feeling of it is different, in the moment, you know?So. A well put together chick isn't exciting; there's no sense of potential danger; well put together women aren't as much of a challenge; and, there's no sense of "you need me"It took me awhile to think about this one. I didn't get it myself until you asked me to elaborate. Probably not the healthiest.
I have nothing against one's dating preferences, regardless whether it can be toxic, healthy or abnormal.So, no judgement there.
Isn't into memes, won't roast me or let me roast her, likes mainstream pop music, wears cat earsAny of that is gonna be a no for me, dog.
when they only talk about themselves, and keep interrupting me when I am finally sharing. then they have to outdo what I just told them...
Benign rude to a waiter because that means they can be rude to me too.
Usually it's how much they go on about how much my body stinks and how lame and creepy i look in my skintight rubber shirt and tights, like it just totally makes my pole stop poking into the air! I hate how they go EWWW at me while i'm stood right in front of them like they're SOOO pure and cool and think theyre better than me just because my body stinks!They are SUCH bratty little slapper-girls.
Why you're wearing skintight?
I have to wear a skintight rubber shirt for special religious reasons, unfortunately it's so hot and thick that my body really, really stinks in it. I try explaining this to the girls but they just think i'm a smelly loser and won't talk to me
Never heard of the practice before. Mind sharing what's your religion and what the ritual is called?
I am part of a special sect that worships a creature called the Xenomorph, we are made to wear skintight rubber shirts to show our obedience to him. The fact that my body stinks like b. o. and moist rubber matters not. But it's totally lame and gross how females get all tantrumy and silly over my unwashed, smelly little body.
If I find they have piss poor manners or a lousy personality that seals the deal for me.
Flirting mode? There are modes now?
For me, yes.
Himor me for a moment and explain what flirting modes are... please?
It's when I'm in the mood to flirt. I'm one of the few girls who have modes.Angry mode, flirting mode, hungry mode etc
I got it now. See, in my mind I was thinking you meant your flurting had different levels/intensities. However, when you share as you did, I now know you mean when you are the mind setting of "flirt". Totally get it now and thanks for the explanation.
Hm. I never thought about the intensities. But that's applicable too. My friends did comment on how the flirting/friendly line is hard to distinguish.
So prehaps the 'level' does not very but ever so subtly with you. One would have to pay attention betwixt the two.
Or they could just ask and save themselves from the misery of being confused.
True, but perhaps this is just my logic getting in the way, but if you are on a date and you are flirting, would not one naturally assume this is not of the just friends variety?
Sure, if I told him I'm into him.And since I don't go out much with strangers, most of the times, my male friends tend to get the wrong ideas.
Aaah. My women friends flirt as well, but I never take as more as harmless fun.
Is it? I shoot down a lot. Someomes I question if it is.
Over usage of cell phones on the date.
If she's on the phone, chances are she's not interested.Or you're boring.
But yes, I agree, that's a major turn off too
I've never had that experience with a woman on her phone. I just see a lot of couples out at dinner together and the female is always on her phone. That's a deal breaker to me. Some women just can't help them selves they are adicted to their cell no matter what company they keep boring or not
Yeah, I've seen those too. Which is total hypocrite because she took a selfie with her company, wrote a caption like she has good times, but in reality just bus on her phone, validating herself based on likes
Yeah that's crazy I have no use for people like that
Being humourless or unable to hold a conversation.
if I don't find her attractive
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