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Hmmm... Interesting question..Preferences are personal, but opportunities are random. Sometimes the dice of life land on a 10.. Other times not even close. But there’s more to life than comparing your meet ups/dates. If it feels right, your on point then. If it feels like your just bored and lonely waiting for something better, then you’ll know you’ve dated down. When you feel your way out of your league, you might have gone too high, just do your best in each situation. Try to reduce damage as best you can.
If you've ever looked at your SO and think "My God, what in the fuck did I ever do to deserve this beautiful creature?" then you're probably dating Up.That being said, does it even matter? Lol
Mostly I base that on looks... Do the two people match in attractiveness? Or is one significantly more attractive than the other? Which is dumb, ultimately, because that doesn't factor into the quality of a human being that they are.
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2 ways are they uglier or not. Than do they make more than u.
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I don't think like that. It's a stupid concept to begin with, created by insecure people who are worried what other people will think about the person they're choosing to date. The two most attractive men i've dated were jerks, one was surprisingly insecure and one was full of himself and loved to lie to everyone about everything. Does that mean that if my next boyfriend is a 4 in looks, while those guys were maybe an 8 and a 10, my next boyfriend would be considered me "dating down" even if he had a great personality, treated me like a queen and we had amazing chemistry? I don't think so. Maybe to people who didn't know either of us but why would their opinion matter.
If I'm mistreated or treated in such a way that he has little respect for me, or if he treats others mean... then I know I'm dating down. I know my worth. And I'd never intentionally treat anyone mean , so I'd never accept less than I'm willing to give
I hate the concept of dating down or up to begin with. Yeah one might have some more advantage over the other in terms of appearance and financial status... But I never really saw it as 'down' or 'up'. If we're dating, we're equal, period.But if I still have to answer... Uh, I have dated far too down than I deserved in past. And I'm definitely dating way up, in terms of personality and how he treats me.
I genuinely never consider this when dating or becoming involved with them. I am with them because I want to be with them and that is it. Their station in life holds zero bearimg on my sentiments towards them. Broke or billionaire alike, I treat them just the same regarless. People are people...As for looks, they all tend to be attractive so again, this isn't a consideration.
If that's something you think while dating, I recommend to stop dating and look at yourself and ask why you're thinking of such thing. Why do you think in a relationship one person has to be superior to the other? Is that a relationship you wanna be in?I don't think that way, because it's never gonna lead me to a good relationship.
Simple:the amount of culture she has and whether we are actually compatible. If she is modest, cultured, beautiful, and intelligent, and we're compatible, I'd call that dating up. If she's anything like today's celebrities, or like what is promoted by society, that would be dating down. There's no way I would date down, it's beneath me!!
Looks I think at first, then as you get to know them then it goes from there. You start to base it on, how you feel or how you are when you're around them. I find that I'm a much better person when im with him, because he brings me up.
Dating up is my favoured way but the occasional dating down can be as ultimately more rewarding. There is something enticing about assisting down dates in having a better time than they would otherwise have had.
I would look more at the stablity of the person no matter how good looking. stablity is a must for an up.
I think as long as you are trying to compare the worth of people you are always the inferior one.
I don't bog myself with those terms. If there is a woman I find interesting, I do not care if she is rich or poor or other things. If she meets qualities I find sexy, I will giver her my time and a chance.
What do you mean? Are you talking age or what we view as quality of relationship? If age I do not particularly seek someone out for age specifically.
if the girl likes me, is loyal to me, and isn't racist and rude to others, I am all for her, if she isn't I am out...
What do you mean date down or up? Fiancial, education? social economic background?
Whatever your criteria are. I personally would look more at financial status than looks.
It's not likely a girl dates down. It goes against mathematics.
as lokng as you meet each other half way an communicate
If you are male you are almost certainly dating downFemales always date up
I remember that I'm a worthless pile of trash and extrapolate from there.
If you're male, you're dating down. If you're female, you're dating up.
If girls have a powerful vagina, you'll alwys be bolow it..👎
How he treats me. My boyfriends is hard to top.
I don't ever think about that way.
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