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I obviously don't expect sex. If I am taking someone out to dinner and I am paying that means I like spending time with them and I don't mind spending some money. But I guess Western standards are different. And I've seen a lot of people recommend not to go for expensive dinners on first couple of dates which does make sense.But of course if I am romantically interested in a girl and I take her to dinner then I do expect her to make her intentions clear by the end of the evening. If she's interested or not. Or if she had a good time or not. If she has any genuine interest or I am just a time pass.
Depending on how the date went and which date is it (first, second, third) first of all a split of bill :3 maybe making out. A good night? Come at my place.
Its the first date, it went well in ur head but she doesn't want to to your place. What was you expecting her to after the dinner or date
As long as she isn't using you for money, and we split the bill? I would understand if she feels uncomfortable to come, its the first date anyway.
What if its the third time but same situation
It would be obvious if she is or isn't into you. Maybe she still doesn't want to come, but the atmosphere would be more flirty and spiced up, definitely making out
Lmfaooo what if she doesn't want to make out and you paud for alll the dates. This does not relate to me. I just want females to be aware of guys intentions
Personally i dont usually pay myself the dates, we usually split so we're equal. If she doesn't want to make out? Leave her ! The point of dating is to find out about the other person, and if you find out they aren't into you, just thanks for the company and wish them good luck, maybe keep it as a friend.
If I pay on the first date I expect sex, which is why I don't expect sex on the first date, so I don't pay for her. If I'm not allowed to objectify her she sure as hell isn't going to objectify me.
Why are you expecting so much
Why do I expect women to hold themselves to the same standard they hold me? I believe in consistency
Why can't you wait till she is comfortable or ready
If it's that hard for her to pay her half on the first date then that's her problem, I just simply won't date her.
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