I feel like you have to, but I didn't, and I've been frustrated about that ever since i graduated high school. Older adults have been telling me throughout my 20s "it doesn't matter what age you have your first boyfriend or girlfriend, it just happens whenever" and "Move on from that!" and stuff. Be honest, is that silly or stupid of me at all or have I been wrong to think that? And about that first quote that I said people say to me, are they right about that?