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Personality is everything. Who we are as a person and the type of mark we leave behind is the product of the context of our character and personality. Everything we do, everything we create, the way we behave and live life, all of it comes from our mindset which our personality yet is part of it. Our body is nothing more than a cold soulless suit without the details and spirit that is attached in between. Our true value is the inside. Without a well-constructed personality, we are like a Ferrari with no engine. It might look fancy but it doesn't work. And to my eyes, everyone born beautiful in their own way. I don't choose people because you can't choose love. Love just happens with it's own rules. And once love occurs and you find the spiritual bond with someone, every inch of them sparkles through the eyes and they become the most beautiful person in the universe regardless of how the rest of the world label it. That's how true love works. If you really love someone, you will find them attractive automatically. Love doesn't understand Height, Weight, Age, Color and any form of superficiality.
But practically people don't date unattractive people. How'd you explain this?
This is rooted in perception. The answer to this question is in my answer as part of my statement. People can't understand it, but there is no such a thing as [Unattractive]. We all born beautiful [[ In Our Own Way ]]. The way people see us is their [ Subjective Eye ]. And of course, we all analyze beauty differently. Therefore, we start to have the creation of attractive and unattractive. Do you know understand how i am stating the condition? There is no stable and reality definition of unattractive. We don't have anything such as Unattractive people. It's only how you see people that way. What's unattractive to you will one day end up being tremendously beautiful and attractive to someone else. Furthermore, earlier i've mentioned everything is rooted in perception. This is about how people approach their moves. You can't choose love, you can't force love, you can't shop love. You mention dating but you don't mention Love. [Dating] has become a superficial environment where people judge each other based how they preserve and define their understanding of attractiveness. They are committed to their definition so much that they also have created all this ranking and rating scenarios. These are meaningless worthless superficial values and behaviors that has no impact on the real side of life. As i've said, Love doesn't understand anything except love. When you love someone, you will find them beautiful because that's what love is about. All these labeling and ratings and categorizations belongs to a superficial world empty of love. It never goes anywhere. It's all nonsense. Life and communication without the touch love is soulless.
I voted for BI fell in love with my boyfriend without even knowing how he look.I loved his personality he was funny and the trust he had for me when he told me about his learning disability and also just having disabilities. When I finally saw how he look, to me he just look like any other guy with red hair, blue eyes.
That's nice. May you stay happy!
I cannot date someone i dont find attractive So very important
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