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May be.These days its common people care for looks.But if dating is not that big concern for u, you can do something else too, while slowly reducing ur weight.
But looks is more then just her body.Its her face, her hair, her skin, her proportions...
Everything can be adjusted properly, if for good reason.If one is doing things for others, chances are they won't result better.
No. No. No. No. No. No.Only mentally retarded guys are really that obssed with girl's weight (or fitness freaks). If all he sees in you is your weight then its his problem and he should fix himself. (Same for men, if a woman rejects you for being fat she is just some stupid bimbo and you deserve better)Use a dating app like Tinder or OkC, post honest full body pics and thats it.I have lost 40 lbs and the way men saw me never changed since it came from what I felt about my self. If you want to lose weight lose it for your self, not for some random dick. When I tried losing weight for boys it never worked but when I put my self first the weight was dropping so fast. I workout because I love my self and want to get strong and fast.
I've tried OK Cupid, Tinder, Match, eHarmony, Bumble, and Hinge. I post flattering but accurate full body pics. I even had a friend who is a photographer take some pictures of me. I've had a lot of dates, but I cannot find anyone decent who wants more than a hook-up. I either get completely ignored (ex. last night I messaged some dude on Bumble, and he immediately unmatched me; when I had Match, I messaged around 30 guys over a few weeks and no one responded ), guys who just want sex (they disappear when I don't put out on date 2 or 3), or guys I could never see myself with (ex. recovering alcoholic with minimum wage job). I have a good job and a great sense of humor. I'm educated and well-traveled. I have plenty of friends. So I'm guessing the turn off is my weight.
Also, the age on this wrong. I'm actually 30, but I don't know how to change it. The guys I'm talking about were late 20s to mid 30s, so the age at which they should be looking for something more long term.
Maybe aim for higher age? They get a brain as they get older.It also depend on how overweight are you.
How high? Like 60? I'm already open to guys up to their mid 40s. I'm 70 lbs more than my lowest weight in college. So, I'm pretty fat.
No.I think in your case is just being inscure, work on your self esteem. And yes that includes working out since it really helps.
I think you should go out and have fun and mingle even if you aren't going to date. One thing about going to interest meetups on the site Meetup was that I was able to interact with men which I needed to get used to after my divorce. Learning to be comfortable in normal conversations. It was nice even though it was not a dating situation. When you are confident to start dating then you will feel more comfortable. And you never know someone might like before you hit the magic 70lbs.
No Meetups where I live. :( I'm dating now and get plenty of dates, just not with guys I want or guys who want more than a hook-up. I'm thinking maybe I should give up until I'm much thinner.
Ah then you are doing better than me. I remember watching a young plus size model who is Japanese working in Japan. She was saying she didn't have a problem getting dates but she had two problems. The guys who only wanted sex and the guys who were attracted her but would only see her at night because there is a stigma about dating heavier women in Japan. I think she did the same thing too. She took a break after a quite unpleasant experience with one of the men.
no you are beautiful just the way you are someone will love everything about you even the bad things too it just take time to found the true endless love you are so precious always remember ❤
Not necessarily.. but if you are not confident in yourself then finding a meaningful relationship will likely be difficult
Use it as motivation, I knew the girls I wanted like guys in shape so once I got focus and had a goal in mind I knew once I achieved it, I would get the women I wanted
If you can't love yourself then I'd say dont even try looking for love or you'll be dependent on another individuals acceptance of you
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