Now I know everyone has their own preferences and that is fine. That being said is being chubby or overweight considered unattractive? I'm 23 and 5'2 tall and I weigh 235 pounds. My highest was 295 about 18 months ago. My weight loss has been slow but I've lost 60 pounds. My goal weight is currently around 176 pounds, preferably in two years I can reach that goal. I want to feel better about myself above all, and I know it is superficial, but is my weight considered an issue? Do guys that have dated bigger girls find their weight a problem? Also girls, does a bigger girl make your perspective of them change? Can we ever be pretty or is fat synonymous with ugly?