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Yes for guys we fall in love easily, and there is a high chance that he starts finding you romantically attractive. How long that takes I'm not too sure. However, I would advise you to hookup with him if it goes against your beliefs. Right now he's looking at you as a sex object, things can change in future but not at this moment
Gonna parrot for a second only because its a common truth that always get swept under the rug of promiscuity. Loyalty will create a bond. Have him be your only friend with benefits and you win!
(Relationships are a bit more work than that, but these payoffs are always bigger than the challenge!)
Yes of course... but most often she’s a hook up cause she’s an easy target for sex... that’s why it’s usually unlikely
But sometimes you end up with a hook up partner that is actually what you want a girlfriend too
Then it works yes
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It depends on how you react, for instance if you break up, or even decides to go back to friends with benefits, will you or him change how you act and treat eachother? A lot of people distance themselves from their exes, ex-hooks etc. I never have, unless the person was bad for me according to my standards. Like if someone lies or cheats, i tend to break away from them. Otherwise i have no problem beeing friends just days after. I also had a friend who i had sexual intercourse and got emotions for, she felt the same way, but after a week or two we decided to stay friends instead. She did need a short break for 6 months to reset her head again tho. But i waited patiently, she's my best friend after all :)
so what im saying is, it could go both ways, depending on how both of you act before, while together, and after.
Sure why not? As long as she's not compromising her own integrity to do so. If she wanted relationship but "pretended" to be okay being casual, then it will likely blow up in both our faces soon enough. But every girl I dated seriously or semi-seriously was a girl I hooked up with on the first date. The fact we had sex early on was not a factor in my viewing them as girlfriend material; if anything, it probably helped their cases, as we learned early on whether we could be sexually compatible.
Funny thing about guys; While we have a rep as "playas", we're actually the opposite. The more intimately intertwined in our lives you are, the LESS likely we are to be willing to let you go. So yeah, you can leverage a friends with benefits relationship in a dating one. Just don't EVER decide that sex is no longer on the table. It's the very SOURCE of the bond between you; trying to exclude it is basically stabbing the relationship in the heart.
Well I don't do "casual hookups" in no small part because I find "hooking up" to be a shallow practice. So no.
I agree, it is a shallow practice in some aspects
Tend to know pretty soon whether she's interesting for the long term. But it can start with a hookup.
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It depends on the person. I'm not into casual sex and can't imagine doing this, but it's hypocritical to not be able to see someone as dating material after hooking up.
How would it be hypocritical?
How is it not hypocritical to judge someone as bad for having sex on the first date when it takes two?
Okay, I get you. Good point
Yes, a man can always see you as dating material. In this situation it looks like he has an eye on you, but he is busy with someone else. THIS IS JUST WHAT I THINK, SO IT COULD BE DIFFERENT