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I prefer the term "compatible" to "similar", like having a very compatible form of communication might not mean we communicate identically but that we communicate extremely well (maybe even better than if we were too similar). And "compatible" interests might not mean we share the same interests in the beginning, but can start to share the same interests and build new mutual interests together, etc. Things can be pretty different in my opinion as long as they're "compatible".
And "compatible" like we balance each other out sometimes with our differences. For example, one of my character flaws is that I'm stubbornly independent to a fault at times. It would be horrible if my wife was also stubbornly independent. We'd probably almost never see each other.Instead, she's not very stubborn and knows how to deal with a stubborn and independent type like me, knows how to gently persuade me into spending more time with her, making that sound very appealing, and not demanding, and so that's far better to me than if she was similar in this regard.I don't think in terms of "similar/opposite" so much as whether we complement each other well or not.
I think too many differences though causes arguments. Like I don’t drink alcohol and I don’t party. A man who likes to do that would not interest me.
I see it. I think that's probably a difference in values (not only interests), and that's probably one of the most important areas to have similarity in my opinion.
I only believe in that phrase when it comes to looks. I definitely only want a girl who looks the total opposite of me with pretty much no similarities.
Similar to an extent, career oriented self motivated type of person, someone opposite in other areas brings new and exciting things into a relationship.The differences in couples can make the others life more fulfilling more exciting.
Not too similar as sometimes you need to bounce off some one different to be Better person, but similar enough that you get each other
No, I'm part of the free-spirited movement for racial deconstruction through procreation
Similar to myself (psychologically).With some traits in common.Meaning a curious girl, explorer... etc
Opposites attract. I'd never date someone like me in a million years. The thought disgusts me.
there should be some common things in partners besides mutual love, mutual respect, mutual caring,
In some ways similar and in some ways different. Definitely similar to me in morals and values
i believe opposites do attract, you may like being togetherr because you guys have similar likings, but the bed game is probably not that intimate
We should have lots of similarities, but, not all. It's ok to have debates, but, you shouldn't FIGHT
I would prefer someone similar to me
The “opposites attract” bullshit is what white girls who only fw black guys say😂
A lot of people seem to think that. And they like bad boys
Who likes bad boys? And I have never heard of anyone IRL saying these ‘dating rules’
Girls who say opposites attract. I don’t like them.
I said what kind of girls say that 😂
Some girls who are so desperate.
How are they deprecate?
Because they have low self esteem. Why would you date a bad boy? He will treat you badly.
Someone just like me
Similar to me
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