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do you think its because of you, or do you think its guys fault?
I don’t know at this point. I think it’s both. Guys only want to fuck me.
that just depends on the crowd teebs, and is that from experience? surely not every guy
Yes every guy because they always seem cool in the beginning and then you find out their true motives. It makes me feel worthless.
The guys I want don’t want me and the ones that want me I don’t want.
but you do have dating standards right. like you won't really take it there unless you're certain he's there for more than just the sex?
ahh hahaha I think thats normal
Of course lol. It’s hard to find genuine people nowadays.
so why are you still running into guys that just want sex? it could be the messages you send? or who you look for might be that type
It might be. I’m not sure. I try to be casual during conversation and flirt a little bit, but nothing over the top. It might be my physical appearance or the type I constantly attract.
that can be taken into account, but being more assertive in what you want from a relationship, and balancing an emotional attraction with a physical one, because guys want to get sex over with most of the time, because the relationship before that has a lot of sexual tension.
Guys probably think you're uninterested in meeting someone. Just start talking to and flirting with guys. Someone will take the bait.
I feel like it’s never going to happen.
It will. Just give yourself a chance by interacting and putting some signs out that you want that from guys.
Have you asked any guys out?
What did they say
Yes and then they try to sleep with me eventually
Well sex is part of relationships and men like sex so not sure what you expected. Sounds like you should date women instead
Your logic is questionable. I’m saying that they eventually reveal that they’re not interested in a actual relationship with me.
Oh well then you just move on to the next guy. Look for guys who are more introverted. They don’t get attention from women usually at all so they really value when a woman shows them some. The guys you are going after probably have lots of options and don’t want one.
That makes sense.
I get it’s hard cause the more extroverted guys are what girls are attracted to but what I say is true. All the girls go for those guys so they have all the options and have no need to settle down. It’s like really hot girls that get so much attention they don’t need a relationship. Introverted guys are the guys that hearts skip a beat when a girl looks at them cause they aren’t used to it
Ok I understand now. It’s just extremely frustrating.
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