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I will take a crack at answering this. I think men are actually biologically hardwired to be attracted to women with more bodyfat. This makes far more sense from an evolutionary standpoint and explains why large women were desirable for most of human history. I think guys not liking chubby women is the result of a powerful social, cultural, and media message that only extremely thin women are desirable. To some extent it becomes a self-reinforcing dogma, because even guys that like chubby women are no longer free to express it without suffering a tor**** of ridicule.
i like slightly chubby women. however being fat is not only unsightly it's also unhealthy. it's repelling. i mean there's no reason to be butthurt about it. it's in their hands to change it. it's not like having an ugly face that you're stuck with or whatever.
Most women that are "big boned" are really just fat, just like they refer to themselves as "curvy" because they are denying that they are fat. Not that they aren't curvy.I like them, but I'm not blind.
It's no fun being crushed by your SO but also it's really just prefrence
I think it's as simple as fat around the waist is a sign of bad health and infertility in biological and evolutionary terms.
It doesn't look good like why is this a question? Like I want someone light who can move around easily. I want to be able to carry her with my arms not a forklift
"Why dont men like fat women?"I hope you dont drive a vehicle
Some guys do. Most guys dont.Most guys want a woman who is smaller than them
they look very unhealthy, unattractive and tend to smell due to higher amounts of sweat. Aswell as the fact that they lack the determination to loose weight (big turnoff if someone lacks determination)
Not all fat women are unhealthy and unattractive and sorry but I sweat during cardio...
Not only during cardio, they tend to sweat even from the simplest tasks...And to me they’re all unattractive, it depends on taste.
Well as an overweight woman who happen to be very attractive since I have a beautiful face, good proportions, decent muscle mass and an amazing smile I will have to disagree. Not all women are the same.
I doubt I’d see you as attractive, as I said... it all depends on taste and my taste is that I dislike overweight people.
If thats you in the picture you are not exactly an Armani model to say the least but all I tried to say is that its a metter of prefernce, some people have the brain to look above the neck, some people lack that ability.All I was trying to say that streotypes are stupid and untrue...
It has nothing to do with brain capacity to find someone attractive or not. In my 21 years of life I’ve never seen a attractive fat person, not even online... so I’m sure my taste is the way I said.And well I’m not an Armani model but I did model for boss underwear before, so I guess it’s not too far off.
I am not trying to date you, I dont care about what you like or not. All I was saying that there are overweight people with the most beautiful faces (Ashley Graham).Not all overweight people have a "fat face" and some of them will not even seem fat if you saw just the face. And here comes taste, I think your face is not attractive at all but I guess some people might like it 🤷♀️
Yeah that’s what I’m saying, attraction depends on personal taste. I don’t see why you’re so hostile toward me for stating that. A face isn’t enough to be attractive in my opinion, the body is just as important.
I am hostile towards streotypes "lack of determination", I think if I lost 40lbs while studying for a degree, working in a part time job and mainting social life I have more determinantion in my thumb then you have in your whole body.There is a diffrance between "I dont find men with blonde hair attractive" to "every single one of the blonde men on earth is stupid."So cut the streotypes, looks means nothing on my personallity
It’s not a stereotype, I didn’t call them stupid or anything just unattractive to me personally. And that’s an assumption that Is far from accurate as I’ve been successful my whole life starting with skipping classes due to overachieving up to working 70hours a week with passion and determination. So yeah, sorry to burst your bubble once again
"Lack of determinantion"Not all of them, thats all I was trying to say
That’s just the impression I get when seeing overweight people, if they actually lack it or not is impossible to know without getting to know them
So your impression is wrong, looks is not the thing that tells you about person's character or persona...
It’s not wrong, a first impression is nothing you can influence 🤦🏼♂️
Yes but this streotype is awful though
Not a stereotype, it’s a first impression. You get one by the way people dress/look/walk/smell etc.
Its the streotype that causes that
Not at all 😂 I don’t think you understand the concept of a first impression.
I understand it but I can not understand how people decide on people's character so fast.I work with customers and I meet many people. In many colors, shapes and sizes and never once I assumed such things on people. I dont look as at a super thin person and assume they have anorexia so same here.
Well that’s the impression I get and how I feel about them personally, if others don’t feel like I do then that’s fine... but me feeling this way is also fine and shouldn’t be judged.
But its wrong and it was proven to be wrong many many times. So why sticking to idea that is no good, right, or useful? If anything being overweight made me even more hard working because I always feel that I have to proove my self.
Oh and by the way do you judge smokers that way? People who tan themselves to skin cancer?
Well to me it isn’t wrong because it didn’t prove itself to be wrong yet.
I have just showed you that I am a counter example
You didn’t show me anything, you made claims without backing them up. Big difference.
I am willing to answere anything.I will get my degree next year (I will be 20 years old, started at 17), right now average stands at 89. Working out 4-5 times a week, lost 40lbs, I work as well as a waitress so I do not sit around all day. I have always been a straight A student, almost always at the top of my class in exams.
Well you’re working out so you’re trying to fix you image. I don’t need you to answer anything, since I won’t change my mind until it proves to be incorrect irl. The Internet is full of lies and bs. But good on you, seems like you’re hard working and determined to change yourself. I’ve yet to see that irl on bigger persons tho
Honestly this is why I post a workout photo almost every day, to show that bigger people do workout.And if I could change at least one person's mindset in this topic I have made my diffrance in the world.If I could proove this IRL, I would since honestly I just feel that society got too facist in this topic, not everyone were meant to look in a certain way
Well yeah but most people are Able to loose weight if they really tried, like you for example. But most don’t and blame other factors for their failure/ lack of determination... that’s where this mindset mostly comes from, from bad examples and the broad majority.
Or from other stuff, sure I lost some weight but I like my body now since I lift weights and I am also muscular (a chubby - muscular)But some people dont *want* to lose weight. There are many overweight people that focus on other stuff. Its all about order of prefernces, they might be super determinded in their academic achivements instead
They do not make me hard. So I wouldn't be able to have sex with them.
Fat isn't always big boned. Sometimes big boned is a skinny looking person or muscular.
Because skinny women are more attractive. You can always lose weight you know. Being overweight Isn't healthy
Honestly i like chubby or skinny. I prefer big girl jus bc thats what i like
I would love to be your friend or boyfriend... Nothing against you if you are open minded and have good behaviour I may date with you :)
same reason girls dont like short guys... lol
My girlfriend is chubby and I love her.
Are you a BBW? I like big tits
Why don't women like short men?
Big boned xD
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