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Next him. Sexual incompatibility is a leading cause of strife in LTR's. It pays dividends to get this right. Otherwise you sign yourself up for a lifetime of frustration and disappointment. Sometimes love simply isn't enough. And he deserves to find someone that really does like him. Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura
I have deep feelings for him.. he always had a crush on me in HS but I just wanted to be friends... is there no way to just show him. I feel like we’d have a good life together.
Show him what exactly? Your words: "The sex is terrible."So if you haven't been able to communicate what you need and want, then it's YOU, not him. But you blamed HIM. Typical.
How to fuck me properly what do you think...
I just saw him last night after not seeing him since high school but talking off and on. It was our first time ever having sex
But YOU are complaining already. I'd next YOU in a quick heartbeat.
I couldn’t give a shit what you would do, ugly fuck.
Cee U Next Tuesday! :)
How many times have you had sex? he isn't gonna be a pro after the first time with youYou need to learn each others bodiesYou need to guide him and try and make it workTell him not go so hard. And learn what positions you can handle and which you can't
I’m mean I’m no spring chicken... I’ve had enough sex to be used to a dick that size..
Thats gross hahaTMI. Guys can improve let him know he needs to get better
<3 He can improve give him time! I will pray for you two :)
Yeah.. he just recently got a divorced from his wife not long ago and they’ve been together since senior year.. we’re now 28 and I don’t believe he is too experienced yet but I will give him time to get better.. cause seriously, if he gets better in bed, I could be with him for a very long time I’m sure. We have really good chemistry and have always told each other everything and gave each other updates on our lives throughout the years ever since.. beginning freshman year of high school
Yeah just be patient. Its not like its something he can't improveImagine his thing was tiny! that would be a much worse problem hahaBe grateful :p
Communicate! Nothing worse than bad sex. I had a partner that was horrible in bed. Without verbalizing her shortcomings ("Hey baby, you're a lousy fuck!"), I took control and tried new sex positions/acts with her. She finally caught on. From then on, sex with her was outstanding.
Communicate... communicate... communicate. Explain what the problem is, and what you want.
I tried but I also think he may just be too big. It was really uncomfortable hitting my cervix and shit
Also, a lot of men don't realise that women don't get pleasured in the same way.
You've had sex once. You've not told him what you like. He may not have had sex in a while. These things do not lead to great sex.What do you want different?
I want for it to not feel like a beer can is hitting my cervix
Amazingly, some women actually love that. Seriously.Did you use more than one position though? Discomfort on cervix is often angle related.
Yes several with me on my back and then on my side and then with me on top. It was just painful to me honest.. usually I like that too but it’s just too thick and long.
How big is he? LIke somewhat bigger than average or … like monstrous.Your original question made it sound like he was 'bad at sex' but this seems more like a pure physical accommodating each other issue.
Well in the question I meant it as it was terrible because it was really uncomfortable. He’s a solid 9 in a half inches at least and his girth is that of a really thick cucumber.
I’ve had one night stands that I’ve orgasmed from so I was disappointed..
Did he know?If you're gonna keep seeing him, make sure:A: he knows.B: you maybe focus on non-intercourse for a littleC: i'd ask advice from women on how, specifically, they got used to working with a partner with a really big dick.
Before he left this morning he was trying to have sex again and I told him not right now but I was actually just recovering. This morning I woke up with massive cramps and still going through my day just cramping Unbelievably
Well I told him that his dick is too big and that I’m still in pain from it and he says next time he’ll just stick the tip in but even so, I’ve had. 10 incher before and it didn’t hurt with that guy... I’m at a loss as to why his hurts..
Why don't you show him what you like? You're acting like sex is something you can't get better at.
Easy, date him but fuck someone else and make him watch until he learns how its done hahahaha
Put on a strap on and show em how its done ;)
Damn that's cold.
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