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Sore subject.I have issues with my wife. We'll go someplace to eat. I'll order what I want and she'll order some small side or something. When the food comes, she starts eating part of what I ordered. That's bullshit. She should have ordered more food. She certainly should not have assumed that she could have part of mine without discussing it before we ordered. When I complain, she says "But I wasn't that hungry. All I want is a little bit (of YOUR food)". WTF? Another thing is, she just takes stuff off of my plate without even asking. That's impolite. She wouldn't think of doing that to anyone else but me.And when I complain, I get the same shit as this question, "Why don't you like sharing?" So, does this mean that I am opposed to sharing? Or does it mean that women are insane? Do they think that whatever their partner has is community property? Is it a woman's way of fooling herself into believing that since she didn't order much that she isn't eating much? I can't figure out the logic. The bottom line is, I'd be happy to share if that was the plan. I just expect to be asked. How about if we both order food and have a bit of each other's. Or would that wreck her illusion that she isn't eating much?
You're 65 and this still bothers you? Just order more. If you can't eat it all take the rest home.
I don’t know bro 🤷♀️ she’s your wife :). I just know that my food taste better if I get someone else too taste it too.
@slatyb, I have her trained now. She now understands that I consider it disrespectful for her to make assumptions without asking me. I was just pointing out that women have a screw loose to think they can just help themselves to someone else's meal.
@wittymilf. As I said, I am fine with the idea of sharing. And my wife and I have been together long enough now for her to get it. It took her a long time to understand how fucking dysfunctional it was to assume that she could just grab shit without even asking. What in the world makes women think that's okay? Do they thing it's cute or something?
@slatyb, exactly. I could do that if I knew she wanted some. Or better yet, she could order what she wants, eat part of it and take home the rest.
I don't think I clearly stated that this was an old issue issue. My wife and I have now been married for 23 years and it was resolved long ago. It's just that the question brought out the feelings I had about this when it first occurred. Sorry for getting triggered. :-)Also, she's the only woman I was ever with who did that. I think she thought it was okay because we were married.
I don't mind. I hate when some one just takes uninvited and then stabs you witheir fork drawing blood when you do the same and telling you only they can do this. Which, after I pay for both I want to drive that damn fork up her ass. The anove actually happened. It was an ex-fiancé. She would ALWAYS eat off my plate so one day I thought I would trybthe same and the demon from the seventh dimension of hell stabbed me with her fork drawing blood for doing so.I have been out with plenty of women where we will share or sample one another's dish. No biggy to me. Kind of pleasant doing so really.
Because your ass knows he asked you if you wanted any and you wanted to pretend to be a skinny bitch and said no then began eating his because you're a greedy ass.
My boyfriend is pretty good with sharing food. At the very start I felt like he was not but I think it was nerves to not offer food to me as he was very shy initially.
Dogs don't share food. Why should guys? Actually, I don't know, but I don't like sharing my food either. It may have something to do with I got the food I wanted, and the amount I wanted. Sharing it either means I get less than I wanted, or I have to eat something I don't care for.
It's my fucking food! I ordered pizza stop eating my goddamn pizza!!! I ordered two pizzas! You get the one and the other one is for me! Stop eating my fucking shit! I am okay though with sharing things like vegetables. I'm like, "Here is a vegetable." And girl is like "aaahhh"! And I'm throwing it in her mouth like, "Here, eat these goddamn vegetables and stop eating my fucking pizza!!! Take some more carrots! Eat more, and more! I shove it in your mouth! Eat faster!"
These days I have found a secret though. My wife hates spicy food. So all I do is pour Tabasco sauce and then she doesn't want to eat any: pizza, ice cream, you name it.
>> Hmm yum pizza gimmeNo give! This my pizza. You get your own. You said Hawaain pizza! I order Pepperoni! I have planned this all in advance. Stop messing up my plans! Have some carrots!
Cause we need a lot of energy and we're hungry a lot. I don't gain weight no matter how much I eat but I need quite a lot of food just to function. I usually share snacks and stuff if I have a bunch but my meals I eat all of it, so there's not much to share.
Its not that we don't like sharing... its that we just want that and more lolso we'll just order more hahahI remember sometimes gf's use to ask for a bite here and there, im like ill just buy you one what the heck.. but she's like nooooo, I just want a bite...arhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhggggg... fine
Those who don't share have missed a point: you can always bring more to the table (or order).Of course there are exceptions; i. e. if someone is extremely poor ……:D…To not share is perhaps a relict instinct from our caveman background - a survival skill?
Do your guests get off your couch, walk over to your cabinet, pull a bottle of wine and pour themselves a glass without asking you?That would be super weird and rude, right?So why do some people fail to recognize "food sharing" as the same thing?
What? What idiot are you with? I love going some place, and she orders this, and I order that, and we share, and use the same forks, and we kiss, so what's the issue?
Everyone's knows the generic situation.You go to eat out and your date/friend/wife doesn't want anything to eat.Yet when you get your food they start picking at it.Kick out that "it will make me fat" ideology. If you are at a restaurant/cafe, you are hungry and others with you are eating don't be ashamed to order anything.Health is mainly exercise anyway plus it annoys who is with you if you "aren't hungry" and pick at the same time.
Cause everytime I order something and she orders something else she sees mine and is like "oh shit that looks better I'll just take it it's totes find I'm sure he will like mine better. Jk this dumbass is gonna starve I just like him cause he picks the best food choices on the menu."
I don't mind sharing, but it annoys me when the waitress asks if we want dessert, my wife says 'no', so I figure, "Okay, the dessert's just for me", and I order a dessert. When the dessert arrives, she gets a spoon and starts helping herself to MY dessert! Like WTF!
When I take someone out I like to pay for the both of us and I bring a bit for if she wantsnalot of food of just something expensive so I'd guess if they order either of the two I just get confused why did I get it meal if you want mine but the one chip or two from fish and chips or something I'm fine with but like something like some of my steak no no n o no
I dont mind sharing my food. What i dont like is when i ask a woman more than once if she wants anything and she says no and then has the nerve to ask for a bite out of what i ordered! I swear some do this shit on purpose
I don't mind sharing occasionally in small amounts, but if im hungry and looking forward to a meal, you'd be struggling to get food off my plate.
Because is food blyat.And this coming from a woman, blyaaat, I bet if I try take your ice cream you start biting me.
I don’t like ice cream :) you can take any of my food.. but I don’t share scratches 🤷♀️ that’s the only thing I won’t share
Because if I buy a meal, I expect to eat that much, I don't want to end up hungry because you did not take actions and did not order for yourself. Basically, it's screwing up our plans for your own self. However, if I know you are like that and I love you, I'm going to order a bigger thing.
It is mainly because the girl will often say "I'm not hungry" and then wipe out over half or what I order.
never really had this issue. last partner, I did explain the intimacy of sharing food. at the end, he still fed me cake. that was sweet
Firstly, it's a primal thing.Secondly, the waiter was just here, he asked if what do we want to order anything and you just went "nah, I'm not that hungry".
That's just bang on the money
I've always been the one bowl = one person kind of guy. I absolutely loathe sharing anything on my plate/bowl.
No idea! I never knew that until recently In an episode of friends lol Joey 😂!!
cuz then they get less of what they planned on eating let's say you only have 1 peace of pizza left you don't want yo hive half away cuz it takes the whole peace to savor it
Well it depends, if she say that she's not hungry and don't order anything but then take food, that's kinda annoying. But if she orders her own food and want to tast mine, that's no problem
Why dont girls order more food? When I plan to go out and eat I make sure I'm hungry and plan to eat everything I order. I'd rather spend double the $$ on dinner and buy you 2 meals "so u can have pizza and steak" than to share mine!
As long as the offending party is not a chronic mooch, then I will gladly share.
I don't care at all. She can take whatever she wants. There's plenty more.
Really? So you can both order what you want. She orders a salad and you order shrimp scampi that comes with a side salad. When the orders arrive, she helps herself to half of your shrimp. What are you going to do at that point, order another plate of shrimp scampi? My brain goes into meltdown wondering what the fuck she was thinking? It really makes no sense.
@Lliam If I'm still hungry I'll order more. I would be amused, not the least bit upset. At a restaurant the most important thing to me is for my wife to enjoy herself.
Maybe this is why we never fight. We don't worry about the small stuff, and so far it's all small stuff.
We don't like your slobber all over it when we take a bite, that's why !
I'm not opposed to sharing, but I literally might want to order more food if we are.
exactly that hahaha... thats what I always do
I have decided on what and how much I want to eat.Why can't women do the same?
It's not rhat we mind but we ask if you want anything and you say "no" then you want to eat half ours. Rhe better question is why are women incapable of eating rheir own. Lol
We do it just depends on the food, for me stay away from my pizza and ikimatsumi (ikimatsumi garlic squid ink noodles)
Cuz you heard us ask if you wanted anything. If you're hungry then speak up, if not then none for you
I'll share, but if you have a chance to order what you want, and you still want half of mine, I'm gonna be somewhat pissed, especially if I'm hungry.
We dont like sharing generally because we got that food for us unless we said it was to share. MEN LIKE FOOD!!!
Dogs. That's why. We're dogs, with all the good and bad that comes of it. Loyalty, affection, love and DO NOT TOUCH MY FOOD!
I do... sometimes... it just depends on if I'm seriously hungry or not
Because that's not very masculine. A man's gotta eat
Because we think we're the top of the food chain. by the way you're welcome to the left overs lol
Hey i don't mind sharing my food that's why i would buy extra for meand the girl i would take out.
Cause it is my food and no one gets in the way of that
Cause it's my food. If you want food, buy yourself some.. lol
It's not that I don't want to share my food. I just don't want to share my food.. it must be built in our DNA.
I would happily do so! I’d even feed her in that flirty way! rofl
I do like to share food. I share my girlfriend's food all the time.
I don't know where that comes from. I share all the time.
Why do you want them to share it? Just buy your own and eat.
It goes back to the good old days when men were hunters and ate first then the woman got to eat
Because we are hungry 😊 and you might have cooties
Would love to have the chance...... but no icecream. NO. NOOO !
I am not sure, some of us do.
i'd let you have a bite of my pizza...
Because they are hungry. Just get more food.
Cause it are food and we hungry
I love sharing with my girl
You do realise we have big appetite..
They're hungry?I also hate to share my food.
That's a sexist question!
Because we want to eat it all and we're hungry
Trust me.. we can share almost anything.
Because " Joey DOESN'T SHARE FOOD!!"
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