My boyfriend make some mean jokes sometimes. It is really hurtful. Like we were watching movie "girl on the train". Then I asked if I couldn't have children will you leave me? And he said yes! And when I got upset he said I can't take joke.. Other things like, he call me needy "joke". He would risk his life for his dogs but not me "joke". And list goes on... What do you suggest. Is this normal? Or am I too defensive and sensitive like he says?