I've always looked for others and been really protective of people I've cared about. Most guys I grew up around didn't treat their SO's with respect. They were also quite unapologetic. I've been told looks don't matter and personality this and a couple other urban myths. I'm really wondering though if being too kind is my biggest problem. It always ends with people saying I'm nice then being ghosted. I just want to talk to people. I'm trying not to sound entitled but at the same time I'm growing tired of having to meet a new person so frequently.