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I don't think most men are submissive so if you are only attracting submissive men then I think it's probably something you're doing that's causing that.I personally prefer an equal partnership but could be the dominant partner if necessary. I couldn't be submissive though, so I would not be attracted to a woman that appears to want to be dominant.Perhaps you are doing that and the guys that are not submissive are avoiding you as a result?What kind of relationship do you want? Do you want to be dominant and have a submissive guy or do you want something else?
I want to be submissive and I want a dominant guy.
But you are only attracting submissive guys? If so, there must be a reason for that because I don't think most guys are submissive. (Certainly some are, but I don't think most.)Could there be something about how you dress or how you act that's making guys think you want to be in charge?
I've been asking the same thing myself. what am i doing wrong? 😅
What kind of clothes do you normally wear?How long is your hair and how do you wear it?Do you have any tattoos? If so, are they visible and what are they?How do you act in places where guys you might be interested in are? Do you act strong and confident (which guys might be interpreting as you being dominant)?Perhaps something about one or more of those things is being viewed as a sign that you are dominant.
i do dress quite androdynous, and i am a confident woman but i can't help that kind of stuff. tattoos i dont have. my hair is usually up so maybe its something more subtle im doing
What things are you willing to try?Certainly you don't want to pretend to be something you're not or do things you don't feel comfortable with because the guy you end up with should like you for who you really are, but maybe trying some things to see if it helps with drawing attention from more dominant guys would be a good experiment.Regarding clothes, it's possible that something more feminine would help. Do you have anything more feminine that you feel good wearing?There's nothing wrong with being confident, but depending on how you show that, it could be a deterrent to the kind of guys you want. If you always appear to be able to handle anything and not wanting help and quickly step in to do things, guys might be interpreting that to mean you're dominant or at least not submissive. So even if you know you can handle something maybe trying to hold back a bit could be helpful.
You could also try letting your hair down. Some guys might interpret always having your hair up as a sign of strength and lack of submissiveness.Just to be clear, there's nothing wrong with how you are and what you're doing, but it might not be the ideal thing to attract a dominant guy looking for a submissive woman and since it's not working, maybe it is worth trying something a little different.After you meet someone of course you should go back to being who you are, but the first step is attracting the kind of guy you want. After you do and he finds out you want to be submissive then hopefully it won't be necessary to do anything special.
i guess so
No. Most men are trained to be extra polite and lenient to women's bullshit in order to not get in trouble. Of course women kind of forget this and they get this illusion in their head that they actually have a freaking chance until they get knocked down on their alpha energy assess when they cross some guy's bullshit threshold.
woahhhh so aggressive. for what?
You're the one that wants wants dominant babe. Now shut up and go make someone a sandwich.
where have u been all my life?😍😒
In the jungle getting raised by wolves. 🐺🐺🐺
what a dream 😍😍
I am indeed 😜
Yes, as far as I know, most guys are secretly submissive and like to be dominated by girls.
Thank you for MHO
most men if i recall, not all are mainly dominant, there are a fair few however that are submissive but then those numbers of each can depend on area and individuals though
Most men consider themselves dominant, but let's be honest for a min here - a lot of men are also pussies so, take that FWIW
"Are most men submissive" no."or do I give off alpha energy" Mmm... no, that's unlikely too.No vote.
Honestly most are submissive even if they act as tough and dominant. We are simply weak against woman.
You probably give off cunt energy so people just ignore you. The world doesn't revolve around you.
What? the world doesn't revolve around me but this question does, so answer it or leave.
Go take your fetish somewhere else dude
i dont have one
V-worshipers are submissive. Men with self-respect are not.
You seem bothered that you don't find societies norms? Just be Yourself
You're having bad luck.
Or you are just confused
how can u be confusd by a guy wanting to be fucked with his legs in the air?
I mean thats hot but still
Would need to see you
Does it bother you or something
a bit yeah😕
i dont want to be dominant
Well some "submissive" guys can play the dominant role if they had to.
but its not fun if they dont want to
Those guys are just submissive then. I can understand. I am switch. I can be a sub or dom. Whatever. I know most women prefer to be a sub so I'll be a dom if I know I have to be.
No. It's you. You're dreaming
It is you. Most men hate being submissive.
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