Last night I was hanging out with my crush and we kissed and cuddled and hugged. We started talking about her cousin dating someone and I said "we aren't even dating... yet" and she didn't say anything. She heard me but didn't say anything and I brought it back up and i forgot what she said. Then I said isn't it obvious its gonna happen just messing around and she said maybe so I don't know what to do. When should I ask her for the next step in our relationship?