So I don't understand why men don't like a challenge. You can't trust them, so it makes sense that to keep their attention you have to be hot and cold with them - give him attention one day, and then none the next. You don't want to look desperate and clingy. But they always seem to end up going for women who show "consistent" interest, but this doesn't make sense because isn't desperation a turnoff? You don't want to make it look like you adore him or worship him or he'll think you're a pushover. Why are men so confusing in this regard?