Is "Playing the Field" wrong in a relationship? ... or is it just another form of dating? (Page 2)
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If you are in an open relationship then yes. Just don't get mad when she starts playing the field as well.
Yeah that's a good point wouldn't do it one is more than enough.
I even can't seem to date one woman, but if I ever will, I sincerely wish she'd be monogamous like me.
I play the field. Not ready yet to settle down with one person. I play the field so I can have more opportunities to meet the girl I really like.
those pump and dump are not worth marring, they will be screwing your entire neighborhood.
One is enough for me. If I find I’m looking, it may be time to end it.
Other, as long as the guys are aware, do whatever you want.
Playing the field is like looking for a car.. ya gotta test drive it to make sure you want it!
One test drive is not enough, it does not show anything, pump and dump is like going for a shit, you do it because you can. It takes quite some time to master the woman you are making love to, This one area where I can control my wife, she pleads for me to enter her, and once I am done she just lies down speechless, when she lets me. Sad but true.
@Badballie part of the test drive!
we are a polygamous species where we had to have multiple partners to advance our species
One guy and one girl can multiply without the need of any others.
What am I missing in your argument Mr John?
ok roll back the time to when it was before ancient rome, we all lived relatively far apatt and mostly in small villages. we needed a way to protect our children from the predators and supply then with enough food/water so what we did was we pravticed polygamy to better our chances at reproducing and to better support the coming generation. so in nature we are very polyganous but now you want to change the way we are which will take hundreds if not thousands of years to do such a thing. see our psychology is that to better our chances at reproducing and supplying for our children and we could not do that alone so we did this together as a village
Yes, but we are not living in the times before ancient Rome.
Things are different now... are they not?
yes but how long would it take to make the changes to each persons psychology to not have to worry about the?
@johnieohm Values are taught at a young age. If you don't screw up the kid in the first place, you won't have to "fix" the adult and retrain them. Thus zero hours of time to "change each person's psychology."
there is a lot to polygamous life style, polygamy is already rooted in the way the peoples psychologt from birth... you will have to change dna and how the brain evolves
Our DNA doesn't dictate the number of people we have sex with. It only dictates that we have sex (or at least try to; obviously there must be two consenting parties.)
there is more than you think, go if we go way back to where we only lived in villages it was more common to rum polygamous relationships because it increases our chances of bearing offspring, also the added help would increase the childs chances of surviving in the first few to decades of life
Dude, you weren't even alive back then. You don't know how polygamous people were or were not.
back when we were hunterers and gatherers we used polygamy and the opposite for a man to have multiple men to support thr next generation
You are most likely not getting any sex, now you want the village women to give you free access. Desperation, hire a prostitute.
what are you talking about? i am going over facts. facts dont change on whether or not i am "getting any"
Polygamy was started because men were often in wars, for many years, and many died, so there were unmarried women or widows available. To survive they had more than 1 wife to keep the tribe alive remember there were many stillborn babies. But 1 woman in my life is enough, 2 would drive me insane, all the demands, questions, etc. If men did not want sex no man would ever get married. I have been married twice, still didn't learn I love my wife, but there are times when I wished I never had sexual desires. When you are with that woman, before marriage, who lets you fuck as much as you want to. But slowly once you get married, the sex gets reduced, some are allowed sex once a week or even monthly. Or when she is available. This is so much bullshit, then women wonder why the men have girlfriends. When we are married you have paid upfront, so why is it so difficult for women to let you have enough sex. Its all about control and manipulation. I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends or wives.
how did that correlate to how much i am getting?
It is and I won’t date such a man.
I voted C
Great question
When you get to the point of actually dating, yes.
It's cruel.
One at a time