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Personality every day of the week, I'd rather laugh with a girl than look at her.
Good looks are great, but superficial and may fade in time. If you can get a girl that's got both, you've hit the jackpot! I've at least had crushes on girls that weren't much to write home about as far as looks go but had a great personality! But, I don't think I'd want to be with a gorgeous sexy girl that has a shit personality!! In the end, if I, somehow, hit it off with a girl, chances are we might spend the rest of our lives together! Why would I want someone that's a piece shit in the personality realm even though she's gorgeous in every other way? I'd rather have a plain or ugly girl that's kind, caring and loving and gets on well with everybody than a gorgeous bitch.
I will tell you a secret that even guys dont want women to know.If you are attractive, have a clean past and no sexual or emotional baggage and are easy to get along with most men will be more than happy to have you, and by easy to get along with you dont even need a great personality, just be cool to be around thats it , you dont have to be funny or great at conversing, having a degree or amazing ideas, just be cool enough to have around, to share our thoughts with and talk to you and get the emotional support we want.thats it , thats all a woman has to be to secure a good loving husband and a good future, a job, a college degree, a good salary and high intillegence are all bonuses... in fact if iam being truthful here, most women i know that have good jobs and make good money treat their husbands like trash...in short looks matter more when it comes to choosing a woman, her personality has to be okay, not even good or great just "okay"
hmmm, interesting. If i'm honest... when i was younger, and the hormones raging inside of me, beautiful girls sure did attract me in every possible way but as i got older and experienced more i found that more than just personality and good looks its when a girl feels like she can trust you and let's her guard down... to me when i experienced that... it was way more awesome that just a hot body. Its hard to express but I would search for that more than anything else... sounds strange maybe but its how i feel
Both. From a guy’s POV most women (who aren’t obese) look “good enough” if she had the right personality. Like 99% of women have personalities that detract from their natural attractiveness. Of course there’s competition too. If you look average with an average personality and another woman looks better with an average personality or better, you lose.Younger guys put less emphasis on personality but almost all guys want a woman who takes good care of her health.
I think from a guy’s POV it seems simple for a woman to have a great personality if she put the effort in. Still we’re impressed if you have half a clue there
For a relationship, both are necessary. For intimate relations, she needs to at least look good. If I’m going to have sex with a girl, I don’t need her to get along with me. But if I get along with her then I’ll want to be with her, hence a relationship would form
Personality goes a long way, I can tell you that there is this girl i have in my friends list on fb that is very beautiful and i mean seriously so beautiful you;d give a pass for anything lol.. but her personality though? OMG major turn off.She listens to really trash musicShe uses the N word willy nilly and doesn't see an issue with itAlways brags and bitches Selfish as fuck and thinks she's better than the restand so much more lol
Personality, if you are a 6 in looks with a 10 personality you'd become datable.But if you are a 6 in personality with a 10 in looks i'd get bored pretty quickly.In the end the girl needs a passing grade for me to fall for her though, i want to find her an 8 or higher overall. Which means she should be pretty to me and we need to have a good compatibility.
Both.Personality counts for more in the long run, but looks are observed first and without even trying.If a girl is cute, but it turns out she's obnoxious then if I have anything to do with her sexually, it'll only be casual.If a guy has a great personality, it doesn't mean I'm going to be into him, because I like girls.They have to go together.
Looks make the guy approach personality makes the guy stay. You have to have a little bit of both. I'm not saying she has to look like a model buuut if she's 200+lbs at 5'1" even if she has the best personality ever there's a good chance I would not go for her because thats not what im attracted to.
Of course good look first and then personality.Remember! "Good looks" is a subjective term. Basically, what is important to see is, "will we have a good chemistry?". You don't need to be physically involved woth that person. When you get to know the person, very soon you figure out if there is a little spark. And personality starts playing a role there.So yeah, BOTH.
Both its a 50-50. You can be beautiful on the outside but ugly as FUCK on the inside (and yes I've seen it happen with women who are ex friends of mine for that very reason). And you can have the nicest personality in the world but what good will it do if you're not sexually or physically attracted to the person or enough attraction to fuck them you'll just end up friendzoning them. So again it goes hand in hand both are equal to each other.
Both, I can't choose since both is needed in my opinion. Good looks is mostly needed to attract initial interest. However, no girl with bad personality is worth being with regardless of look. But any average looking girl with great personality is word being with.We all prefer both of course.
I value both pretty equally. A physically unattractive girl with an attractive personality has the same overall attractiveness as a physically attractive girl with an ugly personality. It's just that the first girl would just be a friend while the second girl would be a 'casual relationship' (i. e. fwb) at best until a more desirable girl comes along for a serious relationship.
If I have to choose one, it's personality. Great looks with terrible personality is misery.Great personality with ok looks is a good life. But attraction is important.
Personality, EVERY day of the week, and Twice on Sunday, as they say!! I don't care about much of anything, physical, but if we connect, personally, then it is GAME ON!! :) :)
I like both but I prefer good looks... because - If I really like her, I can adapt to her personality, even if it's not perfect. On the other hand, if she has only nice personality, but not good looks - We can be only friends, because I have no motivation to try anything more than that.
Looks are more Important since without it nothing really can come from it regardless of her personality Not looks like the prettiest girl in the room no. But you have to have physical attraction to her yes
This is generally an age question. Younger less mature men will be attracted more towards physicality, while age and wisdom will open your eyes to the fact that personality is all that really matters.
My feeling is it is a mix but for me, personality outweighs looks - You can put an empty box in shiny wrapping paper and a silk ribbon but when you open it, it is still empty.
younger good looks older personality... This is why... When your 90 years old and you have spent your life with someone.. Your going to look old and ugly.. You still need to be able to talk to that person.
Personality really, I want my wife to be beautiful, with hot body, I don't have sex with personalities. ANY OF YOU DO YOU ARE CRAZY. She is not a friend or companion, when you first started to do this lady, did you first check out her personality?
Looks help me determine (or assume) what type of person it is. So in a sense I do care about looks.If she has an amazing personality though, the person slowly starts to get physically attractive to me over time.
I focus on personality, looks are a bonus but aren't important to me
for sexual attraction it is physical traits like good looks, face cut , figure, breast size, white skin , sooth skin, nice hair etc. ;)
Mhmm looks is important at first you must be able to see the girl personality will tell if you can talk to her so both are crucial 😀
Always the personality... “when my D*** stops working will you still be what I expected you to be when it did work?”
There must be an even balance. Personality is more important as looks do fade, but you want to be attracted to whoever you're with.
As I always say, good look attracts, but the personality makes you stay.Of course, you'll always prefer a lovely, nice and caring woman. But look has some importance too.
well it depends on what type of person you prefer. some may prefer personalities maybe because an outside factor so that they choose personalities, other may think that looks is better because good looks also help to keep the relationship longer.
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