I think this guy assumes that he can not talk to me for awhile and then he can come back and everything will be fine. He asked me if I wanted to hang out with him sometime soon and then he never followed through with plans until two weeks later when I eventually asked him why we hadn't gotten together.We ended up going to see a movie a week ago and I haven't heard from him since. I think I've finally come to terms with the fact that he's using me and not really interested in me. I've had enough. He'll eventually text me, I'm sure of it, he always does. What's the best way to handle it when he does? Should I just ignore his message or should I say something? What exactly should I tell him?
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Ignore him. Someone like this will never listen to your concerns or feel it necessary to change. They usually make up a bunch of excuses or make it sound like you are being bitchy and demanding. They can make you feel like you are somehow the crazy one who just doesn't understand.
I dated a guy who would do this, but worse, he would act really interested but then only see me when it was convenient. When I brought it to his attention, he made up excuses and feigned a high level of interest. His actions never matched his words. I finally got real angry with him and let him have it and then ignored him. A year later he actually had the foolishness to send me several texts and ask if I wanted to talk. I was going to respond to let him know I am now engaged, but I thought better of it. There was no point to talk to him. He sent about 3 texts and then stopped.0