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- Negativity- Too needy/clingy/stalkery- Mentally/emotionally unstable- Poor values/morals- substance abuse (smoking/drinking/drugs)- poor financial management- prudish/not physically affectionate.Most other things I can probably deal with.
-Anything sexual or romantic to do with other guys.Even in a historical capacity. I don't really care if it was part of a committed relationship and you weren't sleeping around, the point is that it's gross for numerous reasons. Ideally there'd be nothing to speak of, but even if there is I certainly don't want to hear about it or know of it's existence.-Being negative or bitchy all the time.Obviously I want to be happy and our relationship is supposed to be a happy thing. I don't need you inviting all manner of negativity and drama into it.-Making xpectations of me to pay for shit or be confident, etc.Lots of girls have "lists" -- even if they don't vocalize them -- and whatever it is, whether it's having a certain level of status or job or living situation or education, whatever it is and even if I check off all those boxes, F off with that stuff. I want someone who likes *me* and not the lifestyle I afford you, nor do I want to be framed as some storybook caricature of a man that you think you deserve.
I'd be totally turned off by the following:1. Smoking, drinking, or the use of drugs. 2. Any abusive or violent behaviour or the use of profanity. 3. Anything looking like a thong. 4. Tattoos and body piercings. 5. Finding out she has an SO or is not over the ex. 6. Finding out she is bi or not born female, or has friends like that.7. Seeing a dangerous pet or a deadly weapon. 8. Finding out we don't have the same beliefs and principles (e. g, feminist, racist). 9. Criminal background, behaviour, or friends. 10. Any mention of anal or oral sex or other deviant practices. 11. Finding out she's a gold digger. 12. If she has certain sicknesses (e. g STDs) or mental health issues (e. g autism or mental retardation).
Lying and jealousy would turn me off, since you have no idea if a lier it just use you, or their lies could spiral into problems, especially if this is accompanied by constant jealousy - (possessiveness) which I really find annoying and frustrating to be caught in.
As far as your choices go, I would say being too clingy is a turn off. I had a girlfriend like that when I was 30 and it was awful. I guess some guys might like it but it wasn't for me. Aside from that, if she is rude to people in public like waitresses in restaurants or cashiers in stores. That is a turn off and to me it shows a lack of understanding of other people.
She ate taco bell before and when i showed up at her house it smelled really horrible. I associated the smell with her and boom 0 attraction and she wasn't bad looking at all. Also, sex after first date is a no no for me always has been I don't know why
I chose other because both lying/ dishonesty/cheating. AND spending more time on her phone on a date. (I don't mind if they post a picture on social media, what killed me was absolutely NO MENTION of me at all. My ex posted several of her meals I took her out on for dates, never once did she mention she was having a good time with her boyfriend, she made the post seem like she was single, EVERY TIME)
How she dresses in my presence (if it’s lazy or slovenly like urban girls, it’s a turn-off)! I’ll be convinced I’m special to her if she’s willing to dress as elegantly as possible for me just as I’d do for her anyway 🎩👔👗👠I admire couples who treat each other like royalty, & dressing the part is the most standard thing to do 👑👑👑
Two specifically, not a geek, and not wanting kids.
- Rude to service industry workers- Rude to my family- Untrusting- Hard to understand/read- Holier than thou attitude
If she can't handle herself aka a damsel in distress. That will get old really fastSmokers, drug users, women with kids all a no-no. Emotional manipulator (or just manipukators in general) There are many more
Bad attitudeShe’s baby crazySmokes cigarettes (weed is chill)Drinks/parties too muchToo high maintenanceNo sense of humor
Using her phone in public is a massive turn off, and let's me know talking to her would be a waste of time.
Consietted or worse a lier. To many stories boosting oneself into a corner. Ok that's three.
“When a person lies... they kill a part of the world.” That’s a quote from an old movie and it’s something I very much believe.
Lying, not be honest, bringing in negative vibes, curses too much, drinking and smoking, if she's a gold digger, and bad hygiene
Major red flag. Lying.I'd GTFO as fast as humanly possible.(There are VERY few exceptions to this rule.)
Finding out she is religious I would probably dump her on the spot
Immediate attraction killers:* Entitlement* Diva behaviour* Dominant behaviourNot as bad but still not good either: * Clinginess
For me it’s just bad morals, being a bitch, or being overly salty that turns me off, otherwise most other things you can get over given valid reason
Every lie or dishonest action is a blow to my trust on her and it simply isn't gonna work that way.
How is it possible to pick one they are all as bad as each other
If She Trys To Fuck On The First Date Just Disgusting
Just imagine someone starting to lie at the beginning of your relationship; what will happen after?
If they aren't very clean. Ie, theie room is a mess. Their car has a cluterry interior. Unhygienic.
Not much honestly. The only turn off to me is when they are boring to talk to. I am not picky when it comes to anything but that really.
Lying all the time and making excuses up when we schedule to go out.
Going out with a girl? that is so silly and a big waste of time.
Bad Eating habits, I mean You can eat, Just don't be a fast food junky. I like girls that like eating healthy foods.
If she's religious, submissive, girly, traditional, etc
That She turns out to be a He, maybe?
Feminist tendencies. I have no tolerance for today's feminists and too much self respect to give one any of my time or affection.
Stuck on, or continually talking about previous boyfriends.
Her social media presence.
I broke up with a girl cause she had the worst laugh I ever heard in my life lol
Wow, so belly piercings as well?
Being a jealous liar.
Smoking, drug use, history of promiscuity / sex outside marriage, disrespecting my beliefs.
For me its Lack of confidenceLyingNo ambitionsAnd if she considers weed as a drug xD *highlight the last one*
She wants sex on the first date.
She a thot n she lies
Bitch lies? Good bye.
She's stupid and rude. I hate it with a passion.
She's a conservative.
Rude behavior, bad hygiene
Body smellsBad breathDoes drugsRude behavior
If she started talking about politics
Showing little by little selfishness
No communication. I need conversation
Does not make sandwiches.
The lies and broken promises, also excuses...
lots of them
Disrespectful or Abusive Behaviour. Bad Hygiene.
Not following god
if she is a man
I’m a girl
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