Are these red flags? Is this love or an infatuation/obsession?

Anonymous
It’s only been 2 months and this woman looks through his phone all the time and sees his messages, asks him and tells him she wants to marry him, has an angry temper and publically humiliated him and says hurtful things when she’s mad at him and even went as far as driving over to his house to see if he was home and doesn’t want him going out with his buddies unless she is there with him...
she says their fires burn each other out and that’s what they need cuz she loves a challenge..

is this a is a healthy relationship? Is this gonna last?
Infatuation/obsession - not gonna last
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True love - gonna last
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GirlGuy
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10 mo
He’s a classy guy who wears suits meanwhile she goes out in her bra and puts on a lot of face paint and dresses like a slutty goth... I don’t think that’s his style yet she still does it..
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