I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, any of that. My college career is almost over, and I don't want to go out into the real world with no dating experience. It's not like I'm not datable: I'm a little bit on the heavy side (though I've lost a lot of weight recently), but I'm not bad looking, and I have a lot of guy friends that flirt with me all the time. I'm pretty friendly, too. Most of the time I get called cute rather than pretty or hot though... Anyway, how do I fix my situation? Is it something about me that I should change, or is there some way that I can just meet guys and get them to hang out? I'm not used to hanging out with guys without the friendship thing there, so I want to meet guys and get them to think of me differently from their friends.
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I'm an 28 years old, and I've never been on a date. I never also never got to date while I was in college. I am a good looking guy, and people have even told me that I am genius, but still for some reason I am always left out. All I can say is that we are all different and that we all accomplish different things at different times in our lives. In the meantime, just get out and do things you enjoy and also think of ways of self-improvement. In other words, become the kind of person that you are trying to attract. I can't promise you if things will work out for you, but if worst comes to worst, you can always become that weird cat lady.0