I really felt it
I just realised I completely disregarded the possibility of mental issues and protection from that kind of stuff - so it could also be protection from future degrees of abuse
Oh damn he said that as well. He said I'm afraid to have kids to be like my dad and abuse my kid. You right.But also he said he used to take drugs 10 years ago and so he left his country. He keep saying he hates humans they are awful and crowded places.
seems like he has issues factoring different sectors of his life but I say if he's giving u a warning, its probably best to listen. like u can try and be there for him but if something happens to u, ur gonna beat urself up about it and get annoyed that u missed the biggest stop sign. also if he has enough strength to leave without trying to fight for u / or letting u in on what the actualities is - even if its his personal thing - then I think its best if u move on. there's so many what ifs, and if u live ur like by what ifs then ur not gonna progress forward
You nailed it. Thanks for explain what exactly on my head and me been told by my friends. I lived with what-if for a year now. He is good man he keep giving me big amount of money between times because and whenever he is affectionate and Want sex he control himself. He deserves my respect.
glad I could help - even if it was just a little. I just told u things I wish someone told me, bc now I'm stuck here dealing with post relo mental abuse trauma. good luck my love!
You are right he said he has mental issues. And been abused by his dad in the past.
The hot and cold thing is a stereotypical behavior for someone that have been that. emotional insecure with a insecure relationship frame (blueprint) how to behave by default.The best thing is to be a friend first before mixing in feelings with someone like that.It's a mine field the whole way up of the wall you need to climb to get inside the whole way.Doesn't recommend to have to do with someone that are like that when it as to do as more than just friends or friends with benefits FF.
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