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I figured out decades ago that it was a bad idea to get back with an ex, after seeing what happened to friends who did it. Especially those who broke up and made up constantly, or those who were held hostage by the threat of a breakup.As such, for more than 25 years, I have had a rule that I share with anyone I'm about to get into a relationship with:You can leave the relationship at anytime. I may ask you not to go, but I will never prevent you from leaving. But know that it's a one-way door, and once you walk through it, there's no coming back, ever.That rule prevents all of that other messiness.
Women are sometimes obsessed about that their exes want them back.I meet once an ex few weeks after separation at party by a friend, said her "hi, how r u doing" and she made a huge story about wanting her back, despite I had a new partner.Therefore I am always skeptical if I hear "he still loves me".." he can't get over me"... it's mostly just hurt female ego because a guy turned and went away without much drama.
people can change and if they get back together with that person its quite possible that they still had feelings for that person. or it could be that they were being optimistic and wanted it to work out. either way it depends on the type of person your friends are as to why they got back together with their ex
@burnseta. My past experience. They didn't change. They just wanted me just because I good looking and loyalty
Maybe for some it might work out, but in most cases, no. Breaking up generally happens because two people are incompatible, which is usually highly unlikely to change. I personally would not want to re-enter a relationship with either of my exes.
Its easy to go back when both people are lonely. but after a little while the old problems come back. The break up won't fix the problems, all the people can. Thats why its important to ask what you can do differntly change or fix before breaking up
I have never got back with an ex. I've always figured that they are and "ex" for a reason! I do have ONE ex that I have remained friends with over the years. For whatever reason, we make "OK" friends but I'd never consider getting back with her.
not quite related, but this is why it's a CUrreNT that face book won't let you use nicknames. you have to use your real name. so people can look you up. yeah we know facebook wants to sell your accurate data to advert companies for lots of money, but n. e. way.
It really depends on why you broke up. If the relationship was going too fast and you needed to break it off, but later you both want to restart it at a slower pace then there probably won't be a problem getting back together.
I was with my ex/fiance 8 times. Really. If they still in love, do it like this. Man tells her, "Forget about the past relationship. Forget about everything. We start a new relationship. Let's go out on new date." Talk about what's going on. No talking about the past.
None. As you said, if it didn't work the first time there was probably a good reason why.
The attachments delude you to believe that it might work out this time.
Trying to get back into a daily boring routine that got nowhere should never be considered... but if getting back for the duration of one mutual fuck then by all means... get your fuck on
People who want to get back with an ex are the ones who got dumped, its a stain on their ego they want redemption and validation
No. No point whatsoever. The same issued that caused you to break up are still there.
People change over time and there's a possibility they've changed sense then, just not likely though.
I saw divorced couples getting back together and working out well but other than that it’s a very bad idea
Other than alleviating your sunk cost fallacy anxiety and wasting some more time. No, there is usually not much of a point.
Nope it ended for a reason your on bad terms and no matter what it will always be in your heads you both gave up and those bad memories where there.
depends on the reasons you broke up. and what changes where made. but overall I say no
99 times out of 100, NO !!! I'm allowing for that 1%, but the smart money says don't do it.
It all depends on the circumstances. Some people break up without it being a major problem.
Hell no they are an ex for a reason. Always remember your self worth and don't settle for anything less because you deserve to be treated like a king or Queen not garage.
That's like trying to stick a turd back in your butt after you took your morning shit.
The best way to get back at an ex is to let he/she see you move on and happier than when together
The sex mostly other than that none that I can think of
No, there is no point... especially if they cheated on you...
My past ex partner were mainly man and whore and cheater. So no never go back to a ex partner.
Nope, get out and bye boy
If either you or they changed.
Because it’s familiar and easy
And that's my only reason for getting back with an ex, sex. Because it is familiar, and you both still know each others spots. It can get complicated, and you both have to know that anything more is over, but for the moment its all on (or off).
somehow most women love going back to their ex.
For every "Ex" there is a "Why".
I won't do it
If you would get back together with an ex out of spite... Could you please elaborate on this?
No. It never works.
No chance for my ex
I totally agree.
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