Have you considered that maybe you should?
I have anxiety and one of my triggers is touch. I have to really trust my partner, and even then sometimes it happens. So casual sex just isn't for me, but i dont judge others who do.
I was referring to labeling, that is maybe their is a reason we do this (their is, all scientific data shows promiscuity is harmful, especially to women) and that its not just "men being assholes" but it serves a function AND that perhaps you should apply that to men as well (as its women who push promiscuity on men as they are the first to virgin shame a man, are less willing to date a man who is a virgin etc. thus necessitating him having casual sex just to get into a relationship with some one else).
Never thought about it that way tbh. Its a really good point tho. I have teen brothers ones only 15 n hasn't even had his first kiss yet. Actually dumped a girl because she used her friends to try n make him do it publicly. Whole huge mess. Anyway im gonna bring this up when moms not around n discuss it n see what they think.
You should, people for what ever reason, seem to think we have an aversion to this for no reason. Also again, women demand men not be virgins then complain when they go after casual sex, its not a really fair situation to be in (also fifteen is young for something like that, wow).
I was so proud of him for dumping her instead of allowing that experience to ruin his first kiss.
Yeah, good on him, he should do it when he is comfortable and not have it as a public display (its already a nerve racking experience to begin with). I think he probably dodged a bullet their and its good he didn't give into the pressure.
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Yes because if a girl sleeps around she's at a much higher risk for doing that when married. Men don't have to worry about themselves sleeping around because that's their choice. Plus a lot lot of us want a girl is selective and sees something in us that is special instead of being interested in half of the town.
I prefer key that can unlock any door instead of door that can be unlocked with any key
At the same time women prefer sexually experienced guys.
@cavmanier its called character, if you are in relationships, dont sleep around (unless its your both thing). If you are single well i dont really care what ur doing with your body. In other words if you cheat, your easy, if not your fine.
@Janncis You're giving an idealistic view not backed up in peoples' actions. The reality is cheating is very common. It's not talked about or admitted for obvious reasons but is still pervasive. If you are with someone that is naturally promiscuous compared to a person that is selective with their mates, it's obvious which partner is more likely to sleep around in a relationship.
It applies to men too (which is probably why you feel attacked). I think even Lily_Pi will understand that if a guy is easy for a girl to have sex with, he's more likely to take a girls sexual offer when with someone than a guy that only sleeps with girls he's closely bonded with. It's like a fat man trying to resist a candy bar compared to a guy into health. The health guy likely wouldn't even want the candy. Claim morals all you want, but in the real world those morals often don't stay around in the moment of sexual excitement.
@cavmanier maybe but i still think like that, it could be cultural thing. In EU we dont judge girls so much, thought cheating is still looked down a lot. Or maybe people who are around me are just open minded.
@Janncis You don't think like what? Being promiscuous is no big deal or something else?I was personally just answering responding to her. I'm not bothered if a person wants to date a man, woman, non-binary, goldfish, cheater, promiscuous person or whatever. I'm not a promiscuous guy though and I am not attracted to women that act that way either. I like them being morally conservative while being outgoing with sex to only me. I wouldn't even like them on instagram showing themselves in 10 different bikinis. That's just my preference.
@cavmanier i think being promiscuous is no big deal. You see there is a small problem, girl who is conservative won't be really outgoing and kinky with sex as promiscuous girl. Quiz promiscuous girl knows what she like and how, also she knows what guys usually like. Its like with work experience, every one wants workers with it, but to get experience you need job, but to get job you need experience... Its foolish to want a virgin to be freak in bed.
@cavmanier agreed but then again if she is experianced she might show you something new. Same with one company, you will learn only how coding happens in that company. You won't learn how to do coding different, maybe they are old and dont like/ dont know newer c# features.I think we can both agree that there isn't really a line to be drawn.
@Janncis That's true that she can bring experience or wisdom. The problem with that though is women don't learn sex from other women. They learn having sex with men. Her wisdom would have to depend on learning something from the other guy which there's a decent chance that I might not be into it. She's better off spending that same time into sex with me to learn what I like.It would be like an athlete playing for different teams but he's the only one on team that plays his position or role. He's not really learning from a player that plays a significantly different role. Or maybe a better way to see this is a car salesman being the only sales person at several different businesses. It wouldn't matter if he worked with 10 different janitors or 10 different customer service people. He's not learning from them. If girls were involved with other girls having sex at the same time, maybe they'd learn more. Sex with men doesn't really teach them much they won't learn with being with just one man. If anything, they can develop sexual habits the new guy doesn't like.
What I'm saying is having the same amount of sex with lots of men won't make a girl better than having the same amount of sex with one man. A girl having lots of sex will be better than a virgin in the beginning, but the virgin can learn everything necessary.
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That's because women want a man who has slept around, so women demand it of men, men do not want it in women. If you don't like it don't push men to sleep around (women are the first to virgin shame a guy, if a guy hasn't gotten sex then they immediately disregard him for relationship material etc.). Also I would point out that generally speaking, that's not true. Most men who want relationships don't sleep around (I've never slept around, never had a one night stand or casual sex) and they expect their partners to have the same values.
dont worry about him he is just bitter and salty because no girl will sleep with him because of his micro 1" inch baby dick lmfao
@vald9inches your mom told you that bc she was pissed when last night I banged her butt hole and then left her their like a used whore instead of staying with her? She was pissed so must've told you that figure.
Well you are yourself saying that you are an easy girl which means a slut who'd spread her legs for any stray cock like a meaningless whore and let them pee white in you like in a public toilet bitch.
yup he is definitely a salty snowflake alright! lmfao 😂🤣🤣
@vald9inches I know. That's about the weakest insults I've ever seen XD
@vald9inches so your mom told you that too that I'm salty. What a disgusting bitch lol
And weakest comeback bc a 19 yo banged the shit out of your stinky butthole, filth!
@alex_x988 HAHAHAHA!! 19 yo banged the shit out of stinky butthole? XD What the hell are you even saying haha
Seriously? Were you fucked in the head last night dumbtard. You must have cried hard by now slut
That's definitely true
@VIVANT how do you hide your followers and following people. Just a question
Guys can be easy too, man-whores exist.Easy as like the person doesn't value themselves, they throw themselves at any potential partner without any prior validation and such, you don't have to put any work to getting an easy person in bed, how is such a worthless person attractive?
I think that’s just seen as desperate for guys. They might have their reasons tho for e. g mental health or can’t control themselves which is stupid I think.
@Amelia7889 for guys it's being desperate, thirsty, lacking self-control and proper manners and morals.For girls it's pretty much the same but also how gullible they can be and how they wouldn't learn from their mistakes.So it's not really wise to say that girls shouldn't be called easy because guys do the same thing and they always get away with it, obviously like I said it's self-destructive and harms everyone in the process including society as a whole, so it's better to shame women AND men and generalize terms like "easy" and "whore" on both genders instead of normalizing bad things in the name of equality.
I don't sleep with any woman I can. I've always wanted to wait for marriage. I'm a virgin, and I'm okay with that..STDs scare the hell out of me. :)I want to be able to safely fuck my wife, not live in a bubble chamber for the rest of my life.
Good on you ☺️
I'm easy, I love easy girls but wouldn't keep one for anything more than a friends with benefits
*you are not
Omg i want follow you. You are so right!!
@kim45456 I sent you a follow request
No you dont? 😅
Not easy doesn't mean a girl who plays childish games.Not easy means a girl who values herself and doesn't throw herself at any guy because he's attractive or caught her heart with a few sweet words.There are some straighforward girls who will be direct and honest about everything, and will need you to truly prove yourself to them before they can open up to you and give you all they've got, they have self-worth.
@Syrian_survivor your right sweet girl!!
I'm talking about girls that keep sending mixed signals or playing hard to get when they clearly like you."prove yourself" I like you, you like me that's all there is to it. Ever heard a guy say "hey girl, I don't want to go out with you because you haven't proven yourself yet"? It's just stupid games. I ain't got time for that!
What would make you so special if she was like that? In that case she would've got fucked by 31 guys before you because "she liked them and they liked her", would you really want a used package?Self-worth is important in a girl, and it's attractive, would you really want a slut to be raising your kids? What if they become easy like she was and get fucked over and over again by random guys because they lied to her and told her they love her but in reality they just want a piece? See what I mean? In order to earn a girl and make her yours, you gotta make her trust you, you gotta work hard for what you want, otherwise you won't really feel much of an accomplishement when you get an easy girl as 20 guys were there before you and you're just 1 more to the list, unless you just wanna have sex and dump her after.
Easy guys should marry easy girls
I prefer key opening every door than having a door that can be opened by any key 😉
I swear it is funny how you can't use your own words.
Thank you I also find you hilarious 😂
Random sex is the best.)
@Jessica2020 Not my cup of tea personally. A bit old fashioned I guess.