Lmao! I like how you put it.
Seriously these women, who expect to be rescued should rescue their own self and stop being a baby. They're grown women after all, not little girlies anymore.I'll give every damsel in distress i encounter a pacifier.
well they catch more flies with honey don't they
@artemis77 money will attract women like a bright light source attracts moths.
Thanks for the most helpful opinion 😀
I get what you're saying. But the thing is, a lot of men like women who need their help. Not helpless women, but women who need protection or someone to do a task. The average man likes to feel needed, so they like women who seem vulnerable and in need of their protection.
I don't know I guess I feel like it matters if its sincere or played out. I dont want someone to pretend to be weak or something for my benefit as a man. I'm ok with a strong woman I just want to know that in some way she needs me it doesn't have to be in every way. I just dont want to be useless or worthless.
I think so too
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Exactly how you defined it. Damsel is the kind of woman who needs saving. Depended on a man for everything.
Well how do you define can look after herself? No one wants a woman who is a burden but not many men want a woman who is indifferent to him either. Those are two extremes that no one really wants in any one.
That’s true lol well said.
With all my friends often they say it's less of a need and more of just wanting to be appreciated. Most of my buddies go for the independent type. I'm similar. I want to be able to help or try and fix something because I chose to not because I have to. With an independent woman you get that choice. If she needs help she can ask and I don't have to constantly be watching out for her and can trust in her abilities
that's interesting. Yeah true, some women can be very needy.
Exactly. Some just legitimately ran into a tough time, but are generally self sufficient. The ones who act like they don’t need you 24/7 bother me as I need to feel like I’m contributing. The ones who run into a tough time everyday have shit they have to handle in therapy before I’ll get on board (which hasn’t happened yet).
Haha wow so a woman who is strong and can fight?
Definitely!😊Women like that are quite attractive to me personally.
I agreeI am tired of the weak little bimbos running around. I love a woman who can fight
More like women have to actually bring something to the table for once instead of mooching of men as a career path
@jessture so giving birth, housework, raising children , helping with her income, being there and shouldering her partner is not enough? hmm... interesting
You act so entitled to someone elses money. Housework? Not as difficult as women make it seem. I do my cleaning, laundry and cooking, quite easy. Helping her with her income? Why can't she make her own? Again, mooching.Now you want to talk giving birth/raising children? Guess what? The inequality there is men not getting the same amount of leave that women get. How are men supposed to support the mother and bond with the child? Oh that's right, all people like you think about men is we are an endless wallet.
@jessture "You act so entitled to someone elses money" were did i mention that?" Helping her with her income? Why can't she make her own?" i think you misunderstood , i meant the women would be the one helping her partner with her own salaries" Housework? Not as difficult as women make it seem" trust me it is when you do it correctly (or with limited cleaning tools)" The inequality there is men not getting the same amount of leave that women get" you do realize that three months giving as maternity leave (that actually you spend caring for the baby) don't compare to a lifetime "all people like you think about men is we are an endless wallet" again were did i say thatDon't twist my words, would you
Nice way to deflect on every point I made lmao
@jessture if you say so
I know right? Like what do they actually want. Haha
It may depend on how you phrase it. In my experience, a girl calling herself a "strong, independent woman" reminds me of a guy calling himself "alpha," in that I think they should "show, not tell" with their writing. Being strong and capable, and wanting love rather than being totally independent, are traits that I find awesome in a woman.
I love independent women not some daddy princess
Wrong, I do notI am not her babysitter
@NorthwestRider so your saying if you seen a hot ass girl and she needed your help. You wouldn't like it?
I love dominant independent women not a helpless daddy princess
@NorthwestRider I would say I'm a damsel but independent in other ways like with my kids
Behold, my very point.. only it wasn't gifts and money.Thank you for illustrating.
@FýrdracaDócincel lol women like things and women know that men like it when we are meek, submissive and fragile so they will act the part to get what they want. A group of women I know that play up this stereotype to practice hypergamy are Asian women. Men paint an image of what they believe them to be and they glady play the role to live up to the dainty feminine hype. Also the silly playful blonde girl stereotype type work too. Women aren't dumb. We can change things up for survival.