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I have approached a guy first, but i knew everything about him. As i met his dad a fair few times, told me so much about him and told me he wanted to see me with him. I met the guy one night my mum and i went out for dinner at a pub for a girls birthday, the guys father was there too. After the event he asked the both of us back to his place for more beverages and a few minutes later his son came down to see who was there, he was talking about a video game he was playing and i accidentally screamed at him “SHOW ME”. We went to his bedroom and he showed me some gaming stuff, I invited him over to look at my gaming stuff. We have been friends for almost 2 months now and we hang out when we ain't busy with work etc. i have approached him about my feelings towards him. But even though we ain't dating, we are still friends. Currently friends with benefits, but i dont mind that. I get to hug him and hold him at least
No I do not. I will explain why. I lose interest in the man if I have to approach. I'm become more interested in a man who DOES approach. This does not mean that I cannot approach or am insecure. I simply lose interest when I realize I have to approach the guy.I do wholeheartedly encourage ALL women who desire it to approach a man they are interested in. Why? Because we are THIRTY PERCENT more likely to get a response from attractive men. Isn't that crazy? All we have to do is say "Hello" because many men are shy, don't know how to approach, don't know if it's okay to approach---and once we give him an opening and make a comment about him (such as liking his cologne), he'll become more comfortable and open with us. Same thing that guys do for us right? I cannot do this though. But I encourage all women who want to approach to do it. I am with you in spirit.
I actually have before! I'll be honest, it's a lot easier if they approach first because at least I know they're interested.But I've approached a few crushes and guys before! It didn't lead anywhere, but at least I did approach them.
Yes preferable because IRL I'm really shy in front of guys. I have had times where guys don't like me or fell the same way and I feel like really embarrassed because of it. I tend to like a guy that tells me he likes me because most likely I like him.
So then the guy usually makes the first move?
Hopefully. Most times he finds out that I like him and the results always vary from there.
No. Cause i hate getting ignore by guy. I am kinda old fashioned and i want biy persue me. So, i always wait for a guy thag chat me intense, fight for me and want me. Even though at first, i don't have feeling. I will grow time by time
It's not easy but yes if I can like them enough I'll absolutely at the very least ask them to hang out and eventually will spill the beans that I'm crushing
I’ve approached a few and been rejected each time. I don’t normally because I’m usually too busy to think about dudes
Yes, no point in beating around the bush or waiting forever.
I start liking someone after talking to them. I don't really feel attracted just by looking at them, so sort of? I've probably been the first to approach at some point...
I've never approached a guy before but someday I want to.
I have never before. This was my first time sending a guy i like a friend request on facebook.
Nope. Never walked up to a man in my whole life.
Nope. I wanna be on the safe side.
Yes I approach a guy I like online or in person
i can't say "usually" but I have.
Once in a while. Usually he approaches me first.
The furthest I can go is start up a conversation
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