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Personally speaking, I do not like them.
Because most feel guilty for feeling bad about 'stupid little things' when someone is facing cancer, or some horrible illness or something like that.That positive nature is comforting to many, like hanging out with them, makes everything seem better! Who wants to be with someone that just complains all the time?
Funny you mention cancer, I’ve just recovered from breast cancer and maintained a positive mindset throughout. Sure I had my days where I wanted to just stay in bed and I had a spell of a few months where I would just feel overwhelmed by emotion when thinking of what I had just come through. But then I realised I wasn’t sad, that’s not why I was crying. It was gratitude, thankful to be given another chance
Sharing too much, openly, is difficult, but I would love to chat, privately, if you would. I think we might have some things that can help with regards to perceptions, humor, and life. :)
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Because it shows they have ambition and energy, we desire to be with people who meet challenges head on and can inspire us to be better versions of ourselves. A good leader has these qualities and when we see a leader defeat adversity we are drawn to that person. It’s human nature.
That’s a great response, thanks
You are welcome, it’s positive for sure :)
😁 sure is!!
Because we all love nice, positive people.If one asks me what attracts me most in a girl, it's when she smiles very spontaneously at me. That's inviting!You simply have to smile back and before you know it you're feeling good together and friendship or more is a fact :D <3
Haha that’s lovely ☺️ a smiling face is always nice
Cynical people annoy me. No one wants to be around someone all about doom and gloom. Given the choice, they'd rather be with someone that gives them hope. Imagine failing an exam. Would you rather be around someone who tells you it'll be okay, just study and turn it around, or someone who says you're basically screwed this semester. Even if it's true, most people want to be around those that bring good feelings.
Because their eyes will sparklingly shine. Their eyes are open wide and make the face glow brighter. People with positive thinking will speak positive things, that they'd unintentionally encourage and inspire others too. That's why they are attractive.
It shows that they are strong enough to overcome challenges. They let off a positive energy that helps pull others up to and gives hope to people. I imagine most people want good things in their life, and a positive outlook when timed are tough is possibly the best thing you can have until things get better.
Because we admire successful people that can overcome adversity. This is one of the character traits I admire the most and find most desirable in a woman.
That’s nice actually, and overcoming adversity is a big thing. Would be easy to hit a block and let it take you to a dark place. I’ve just recently battled breast cancer and wore a smile most of the time. I’m just a naturally positive person and it takes quite a lot to get me down.
Because they replace bitching and complaining with the ability to solve problems in life. That means they don't expect others to fix their problems for them.
its very easy to be pessimistic but hard to look at the greater side of things
Maybe inspirational is better to describe the situation :)
Because a positive attitude is generally more pleasant to be around.
They are beacons of light in a world submerged in darkness and despair.
Because it usually makes you feel good as well. Nobody "wants" to be depressed.
Because feeling good with a person feels attractive.
Because we associate satisfaction with safety. Positive people seem peaceful and non-abusive.
Because a conqueror is desirable and has a winner‘s mentality.
Cause we enjoy life and never taking anything seriously. 😎
Id argue the opposite. Optimistic people in my opinion are naiveWorld is a cold harsh place that doesn't offer handouts
Do you think anyone finds your opinion attractive? Who wants to be around someone like that? And do you realize that you wrecked your own argument just by uttering it? That's really funny.
Everyone has their own opinions this is mine. Im speaking from expierance. I've had to do deal with a lot of shit which opened my eyes to how the world is
Everyone deals with stuff guy that's nothing special and everyone speaks from their own experience. You just view it from a particular perspective but it doesn't make it any more real than someone else. And given the option, people would rather be around those who are optimistic because hope feels good. And optimistic people live longer and happier lives.
Im my expierance id rather be round people who dont kid themselves. Optimistic people annoy mr
Because no-one likes a person with a negative outlook, they only bring others down while positive people uplift people, both do without trying
People are attracted to happiness and enjoyment.
Attractive people always hurt me
How do they always hurt you?
The girls I like always ghosted me...
Last girl I loved, blocked me after promise of marriage.
That’s a shame. Don’t let it drag you down, keep on looking and that special someone will be there waiting for you. She’s probably wondering where you are too ☺️
Actually now my heart is broken 💔 I don't want to believe in love again
No one wants a Debby downer
Or a sad sally
Or a pessimist patty
Or a negative Nancy
People need hope and inspiration.
Confidence and positivity are always attractive
I don't find them attractive
It's all about their energy
Optimistic is people are like magnits
Positivity is hot
Because they probably have toxoplasmosis like you.
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