I bet you are with a Screen name like that ! You go boy! "wink"
Thank you 😊
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Wow that is sad to hear about your brother!
Oh it can be a shit show for sure!
Once you've tried the pay-per-letter sites, you really start questioning your sanity.
Those sites are mostly outside of the US. It's mostly just a monthly subscription here. I have heard of them and they sound terrible!
Just to add to my answer: I think online dating is also a useful way to meet more introverted, shy, or reserved girls. Since those girls aren't likely to be found by going out.Yes, the pay-per-letter sites aren't in the U. S. I had a "desperate" phase a while ago so I did try them. But it's too easy to see the con to actually stay on those. The only "value is if you want someone to talk to while pretending that person is a gorgeous woman. Living that delusion does help self esteem a bit. But like I said, getting serious opens your eyes to the con.
Sounds a bit like Chaturbate... cam models pay to talk !
I'm not familiar with chaturbate, but the model sounds similar. You had to pay per message (to send and receive), pay to get photos, pay for a Skype chat ($1 or $2 a minute if I recall correctly), pay to get an email address. It's so silly. One of the more foolish choices I made in the past.
Yeah chaturbate is a cam model website where you can pay the models to strip for you and do all kinds of other stuff for you and I believe it's by the minute or tokens or something. Lot's of money to be made out there... that is for sure!
Ha Ha Ha love me some POF ding's on my phone!
For sure.. they definitely are not for everyone!
I forgot to add that if you go on a date, the odds are very high she's using old photos and when you see her she's gained at least 20 lb.
How TF are you supposed to make a decision based on just a couple photos. How are you supposed to make a decision on approaching someone in a bar on just their appearance? WTF are you talking about? It's done everyday in bars, taverns, clubs all across the world. You can't do the same with a photo? What is the difference?
The great advantage, in my opinion, to online dating is being able to sort through a large number of possible options and eliminate most of them through your search criteria. I care not a whole lot about how a woman looks, I've got other criteria which are more important to me.What I've seen of dating apps is that they tend to offer little or no ability to filter out unsuitable matches.I don't go to bars, so I can't really offer an informed opinion about how things work there. I doubt I would have any success in such an environment.
Okay so if you are on Bumble and you upgrade to the Bee line... you will wake up every morning to a box of potential matches that SWIPED right on you. You can read their profile, look at their pictures, and decide or "filter" out ones you don't like and choose the ones you do! Probably the most easiest way to meet people in my opinion but most guys can't afford 20 bucks a month. So ya know... lol
When I was trying out those apps, I didn't find the profiles to be particularly useful. I was in a bit of a niche market also, so a lot of my frustration may have more to do with that than anything else. My target demographic was right around 0.7% of the US population, and that was for me to even be interested in reading further. Add to that the fact that I don't look like I'm part of that demographic...$200 a month for say 6 months would have been nothing if it worked in that timeframe.I really liked your bar analogy, that really makes these apps make more sense to me. Although... one typically, I assume, chooses a bar based on ones interests, so there is some narrowing down right there.Maybe you can clarify an impression I have. They appear to be geared towards going on lots of dates with lots of people. Is that your impression?
Yes... it's a numbers game. You find someone you like... you chat for a while and then ask them out for coffee. Do a hour date with them "usually coffee" or Happy Hour drinks and see if you have chemistry. If not it's just an hour and the price of a couple of drinks. Also keep that first date to under an hour in case they are crazy! You can dip out if you need too.
Wow and answer that doesn't mention your ex... proud of you man LOL.
LMAO. Dammit, Coach, why did you have to mention her? Now I'm thinking about what I liked about her.
If you use them correctly then you will sleigh!
Presumably. Thing is that I am not too interested in dating rn tbh, very very busy with university
You should tell your friends that! LMAO
Done that plenty of times. But they ask me whether I’m homosexual or asexual, and whenever I talk to a girl for a prolonged time they immediately say I should ask her out lmao
GAG isn't a dating app so there's that. People can get addicted to the internal validation they seek by matching with others on these apps! Dopamine hit's the brain like a leaky faucet every time a match occurs!
You didn't get the joke :(Anyway, really? A match can do that rather than something more? Like actually setting up a date? Then again, I have never used one so... I feel biased.
Its just that from what I've seen, people dont actually put much effort into the app. (At least in college), they are swiping right or left I don't know which on tinder with almost anyone. The girls dont seem to have much depth, or just doing it for fun -which I find odd. Or maybe even just seeing what kind of guys are around the area. I dont imagine much coming out of them.
Well the goal is to use the app to actually meet people and yes then set up a date. But many people use it just to see who likes them... not actually to meet anybody! Yeah that joke flew right over my head man lol
Just counted them, there are 21 of them on my phone... I got a sad life, I guess
21 dating apps? or apps in general?
Dating apps... More or less anyway
Sad, I miscounted... 23 dating apps, I know which one is best for sure 😂
Which one is the best?
Good for you man!
That’s makes no sense
@BigSlice you know what? I’ll bounce your head off the canvas with me right hand shot. Maybe then it’ll make sense!!
@1828avaava1828 bahahahahahahaha... I just spit out really good bourbon!
The disrespect from some people lol 😝
They are not for everyone!
i mean i like the idea but the people on it are just pure shit. and 90% of them are bots, fakes or inactive accounts that don't answer anyway. i mean i could get addicted to them if they would actually work.
People use them wrong. Believe me they work.
if you buy a pen to write and it doesn't write, are you using it wrong or does it not work?
HA invest in a better pen! Nobody want's to invest in themselves, photos, monthly upgrades, they just want the FREE site to work. Sorry it doesn't work that way and neither will a cheap ass pen!
what are you talking about. ever used a chea ass bic pen? they always work. are you suggesting "premium", "sophisticated" sites work better? because i tested those and they do not at all. neither for the purposes of finding sex nor for the purposes of finding a decent partner.
I make six figures a year helping people do online dating. Again, sorry it didn't work for you. It's not for everyone lol.
no disrespect coach, i've been following you for a bit, reading your opinions and stuff. i mean don't get me wrong you do give solid advice now and then as far as the stuff i've read from you but really not outstanding. i mean very good for just a random dude on the internet but for someone claiming to have made 6 figure income with his advice, naw dude i'm not seeing that. that seems a bit far fetched to me. again not trying to diss you or something. maybe i just didn't read enough of your opinions. it's just what i gathered. it's not like you're a stranger to me on this site. that's all i'm saying.
i'm sure you won't be offended anyway if what you said is actually true :)
LOL I'm not.. thanks for the comments dude!
i mean i have seen people like Matthew Hussey and i clearly see why he would make six figures. maybe it's just cause i haven't seen you yet ^^
or like the realsocialdynamics folks.
He makes about 5 million dollars a year. I think you have the money screwed up and what people make doing stuff like this! I am a drop in the bucket compared to someone like him.
not sure about that. matthew hussey only has 2 million of net worth as far as i know. i mean not that that wouldn't be a lot for someone who gives freaking dating advice xD
It's almost 2020. He is worth way more than 2 million with all the recent tours, programs, and female retreats! Not sure what year that was but probably wasn't recent.
Well those are addictive too... for sure!
Do you ever meet up with them?
If its the raid girl no problem adderweis no than its just talking!!😆
Be careful! Use protection! LOL
I get it... not for everyone!
What do you use it for?
To date and have sex