My Husband is too affectionate?

[Anonymous]

You should be grateful. So many women would kill to have a husband like that. So many other womens husbands are looking at other women or not giving them enough attention. You should really cherish your man. But anyway to answer your question because maybe you're a great person and are just as affectionate to your man and just a but misrepresented in this question. I would say just talk to him and make him. understand that you live his affection and him so that he doesn't think you're going off him or are embarrassed by him (because he might just start to question that). Just tell him you're not a fan of public affection or random touches out of the blue or just going about your day.

Please answer mine. I'll be very grateful:)

Why would someone who dislikes me want to hang around me? ↗

[pickledTink]

If it's an issue that you aren't getting enough non-sexual touch and so the sexual stuff is off-putting then let him know that. Otherwise just talk to him, let him know that you love him and that you think he's attractive, but sometimes you don't enjoy all of the touching.

Personally though I would take it as a compliment and enjoy the fact that he finds me so attractive.

[nerms123]

His love language is physical touch. That’s how he tells you he loves you. If you tell him not to it will hurt his feelings. It’s better if you reciprocate and touch him back. Also touch him first sometimes. His needs will be satisfied and he’ll calm down.

[Aethereal]

I personally don't see anything wrong with this. I'd love it if my girlfriend/wife remained as affectionate as that over the years. I think you're lucky to have met someone like that.
But if it really bothers you that much, you should sit down and have a serious talk about it. You might however want to weigh whether you'd rather have him being too affectionate, or not affectionate at all. There is after-all a chance that this would hurt his feelings, or cause him to start questioning your love.

[markscott]

You said you have already told him nicely, and he continues. If you have repeatedly told him nicely, and it doesn't change, then you will have to tell him not so nicely. But first, tell him how you feel, and firmly get the message across. That doesn't guarantee he will listen, do you may need to tell him not nicely, but don't do it meanly.

[Anonymous]

Did you guys get married quickly? Because this sounds like you two are very different that way, and something you should have realized BEFORE you got married. Idn, to me it seems weird you liked it in the beginning, but now, not so much? This is going to be a huge issue, even if you can tell him because that's the type of person he is, and you don't like it. Even if he tries to cut it back, he's not going to be happy because he'll be wanting to.

[Lady_Barb]

Look... consistency is important and yes many women would love some luv and affection back from their husbands. Ladies, for real, stop finding issues where nothing is wrong OMG.

[sejla]

I was never ok with the butt touching in public but...
As a divorced woman I'd say you are blessed. I don't want to belittle your objection but I would have loved that kind of attention in my marriage and I'm not even a real touchy feely person.

[Anonymous]

Appreciate that he finds you sexy. The things you describe are sweet, passionate and loving. If you are fridig all the time it will hurt your marriage.

[Anonymous]

If it bothers you that much feel free to step aside, there's probably 1000 women in your town that want to be with a guy like him.

[Iron_Man]

Have you lost your sexual appetite or are you growing bored of him?

[COMMODOREII]

Lol i would have loved the attention. Lol how come you don't like it?

[FranLimonade]

Girl 😑 are you serious? You're living the dream...

[Anonymous]

Extra?

Sorry I don't know the lingo these days. I'm 30

[Anonymous]

Your husband deserves better then you

[justawhiteman]

sounds like he really loves you honestly

[artemis77]

many women with love to be in your shoes.