Guys never ask me out, does this mean I am unattractive?

[JSmuve]

Maybe yes.

If you're attractive and putting yourself in positions to be approached, like joining clubs and being present and engaging, then you'll get asked out eventually.

Since this doesn't appear to be you, you're either unattractive, not putting yourself in positions to be approached, or you're not engaging enough.

The test would be whether you notice guys checking you out often. If they do, you're at least somewhat attractive and the problem is you don't appear approachable. If they don't check you out, it's because of your looks.

[MikeTheBartender]

Most men your age range have grown up demasculinized. They lack courage and skill to approach women and make the move.

On your end you have no photo so basic stuff, are you overweight? Outgoing or shy? What value do you bring to the relationship?

Instead of worrying about guys asking you put focus on you, make yourself your own mental point of origin and the guys will show up w little to no effort.

[karley55]

Nope that doesn’t mean you are unattractive it means the opposite actually lol, I don’t wanna brag but I’m attractive and guys never or rarely approach me because they think I’m intimidating and they are afraid of rejection.

[nerms123]

Guys don’t normally just walk up to girls and ask them out. First start by having friendly conversations with them. Then flirt and see if they flirt back and go from there

[AngelAimée]

No it just means that not all guys have the confidence to ask a girl out.

[Truthatanycost]

Why would a guy approach you at college? doing so places him at risk of losing his place on the course, sexual harassment allegation, and his name / life being ruined.

Back in the day at College I used to approach loads of girls... but in today's joke of a culture, I wouldn't waste my time.

METOO.. feminism... false allegations...

A 19 year old student is even facing 10 years in jail for touching a girls waist and arm ffs. It's not worth the trouble.

[BarryMcKohkner]

Are you naturally a shy person? A lot of guys are more nervous than girls really thinking. My opinion, just live your life how you want to and don't worry about trying to find anybody. Be happy, do what you want and in doing those things you will find someone for yourself. Sounds cliche or whatever, bit it is true. Just be you, and you'll attract similar people and sooner or later you'll find someone you connect with.

[slatyb]

Not necessarily. Do you have friends? Male and female or just female? Guys approach women that appear friendly and interested. If you are too shy to even speak to guys they will assume you aren’t interested.

[monamathmates]

It just means you aren't sending the right signals or hanging around the right guys. Try talking to quiet shy boys and making the first move. You'll be surprised.

[MidaBushka]

Maybe you are not
Maybe you are attractive but they are shallow
Maybe you are in the wrong side
But I am sure everyone has his soulmate
And you will find yours

[Browneye57]

No, it means you're unapproachable, and your entire focus is inward. Completely on yourself.
You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.
Get some help with your social skills if you need it.

[cavmanier]

I can't tell if I am attracted to a girl without seeing what she looks like.

[_SOARER_]

What are you doing tomorrow night?
there you go, problem solved haha.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, you're not showing us a photo, so how the hell would we know?

[Anonymous]

It’s 2019 guys aren’t just going to approach women. It’s considered harassment nowadays by the feminists so if you want a guy you women should do the approaching

[Steve4783]

Most guys do not approach girls because of the same reason you girls don't, Because we are usually too nervous or shy.

[broncobryan]

Well we dont know if you're unattractive or not, you did this question as anonymous.

[BrotherFrost]

Depends. You can either be a 1/10 or a 10/10. Look in the mirror and ask yourself, are you a 1 or a 10?

[Mezius]

Im a guy with a similar problem, so most likely yes.

[Anonymous]

No idea. We don't know you or know what you look like

[JKingOff]

It means you're not approachable.

[jjj101010]

Would be easier to tell from a picture

[Avicenna]

Absolutely not

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are unapproachable.