Oh wow interesting
Like I kinda want to try it with someone to see if it works.
Wanna try it out with me?
Totally. But what happens if we're in love at the end?
Lol I guess you'll be husband number 2
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I have to disagree, not everything is a choice. Especially love, it's hard to choose who you love. Most people chose someone they like but dont always fall in love with them
Hard to choose who you love? So in other words, your being controlled by things you have no desire to be responsible for? I can see why so many people get hurt because that is not how you treat another person with respect. It is only hard because one is selfish. I can love somebody without restraint because of its my choice. Nobody deserves to be neglected because the other doesn't know how to be responsible for their own choices. It is most certainly a choice. You're not supposed to fall in love. Were commanded to LOVE. Which means, it doesn't matter what you want. It's what is needed. That's why couples fall in love then fall out of it. Then that is not love. That's being fake, a user and unauthentic. If I say I love somebody, I mean it. I don't have to fall in love just to love them. I should be able to love a person whether I like them or not. It's a choice to give commitment. What your talking about is sexual attraction, which is dependant on your preferences and values. Both are choices and genetic.
I believe that when people say they can't choose who to love to make a lot of excuses where if their integrity is questioned, they would have a hard time telling the truth because they already knew the truth. You either want and desire to love a person or you really don't. Nobody deserves to have their heart toyed with just because you don't feel the same. They would rather have honesty instead of sugarcoating. I would not want somebody who is fickle or wishy-washy but expects me to just accept their falling in love. You either love me or you don't. Don't pretend you do and then want to leave because you fell out of love. That is why I say its immaturity. Because there will always be something you don't like about a person, but it shouldn't have to dictate another's choices to give what you deserve if one wants a relationship with you. There will always be something I may not find physically attractive, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't try and attempt to love somebody if I really like the person. That doesn't determine why I love a person. True authentic love doesn't do that or hurt another for one's selfish desires. It doesn't last.
Girl sorry to trigger you, I just personally experienced love as being uncontrollable. Obviously love is different for everyone, we all find it and define it differently
Your not triggering me. I'm just saying that its all about mindset and maturity and not how one experiences love. Love is love. But what we choose to do with it can have either positive or negative experiences. It's a learning process everyone must learn, but not everybody learns from those lessons. If love is uncontrollable for you, then you have a choice to either learn to have self-discipline or not before you end up hurting other people who don't deserve that.
Me and my husband both think love is uncontrollable so it all worked out for me. I didn't hurt anyone cuz we felt the same
That's the only reason why it worked. Because you both shared the same values.
I guess but I didn't know we shared that till long after we dated
I have to agree with Apple.
Well that's you. But that is not other people. And not for people like me. I know its a choice.
It kinda hard to concentrate on control , But I don't like to control girls , because they are free to control me.😁
*recently. We met over a year ago actually.
And once women start having feelings, that is when we can't stop. And it becomes uncontrollable.So the start is crucial.
Yess love at first sight is so real, I have experienced it with my husband
Yes it's real. Doesn't happen with everyone because it takes time for fate to introduce the right person to each other
I hope she used it.
So true, the first words he said to me was "do you have a boyfriend?"
Yup. I'm in love with a guy who is 7-8 years younger than me 🙄
5 girls at once would be stressful
Well not really cause i go from the best lookin one and pick them off by what they're like until its the one i want
Yes so true
I don't feel that it is something you can choose or control. My last girlfriend was someone that I never should have allowed myself to fall for, but I did. And I suffered painfully for it until the love died.
Well, I did. My mind bullied my heart, and won.
You think love is a choice?I don’t agree, i think love is a feeling that you can’t control...I think the inly is to get into a relationship or not !I might be wrong !:)
***the only choice***(Sorry)
@Maxnanet You're talking about attraction. All those feelings, the excitement and so on, that we get about a certain person, are chemical processes in our brain that compel us to breed. Love builds up over time; not because you "fell in love", but because you choose to be with that person despite their flaws, their temper, faults, and all. Love is a slow burn, meanwhile lust is a raging fire. People fall in lust and that's why when the lust fades they think they fell out of love. When really they never loved that person to begin with. If you ask me, then yeah, love is a choice.