Girls, Jealous of this guy?

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So I knew this guy from my classes in college and he was regarded popular due to his good looks and having a lot of money. All the girls would just cling to him no sweat and spend a lot of time just flirting and hanging out forever, whilst I the opposite of rich and hot get jacks**t. This hot/rich guy gets girls left and right, even his phone get loaded with likes and messages from them so he's also got social status, whilst I always get left on seen.

What I'm trying to say is that honestly I am really jealous of him because he's got what I could never ever get. Guess ugly/poor people don't deserve love huh? Sheesh that's gonna be a tough pill to swallow and goes to show that girls don't really like ugly/poor guys like myself. I tried talking to a few women and they always express disinterest and run off to the hot/rich popular guy because I'm nothing but ordinary.

Please help me alleviate this feeling. If anything, try to at least. I swear the hot/rich guy never gets rejected nor gets depressed.

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luvstoned4him | 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

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You are jealous and depress , I can feel it

I think the more shallow types of women will go for money and good looks

I won't completely write off looks.

you need to somehow be phsyically attracted to someone to at least be able to have sex with them and be in a relationship with them. I dont think you are ugly tho.

what I think is the fact that the guy may have money, cars and popularity and his family maybe people in society and who knows what else he has going. All of these look attractive to most women. They see him as someone who can take care of them. Meaning most of these girls won't see the need to lift a finger to help themselves. I dont think you want that and you shouldn't be jealous of him. You should be thanking him.

I dont know about men but if I was a guy , I would appreciate a woman who is willing to work with me. If she never had to work hard on her own and get things easy then when the times get tough in a relationship, family etc she is gonna run.

Lets say he ends up with one of those girls then he goes broke, loses everything and ends up on the street - you will see how many of them remain and will easily run to the "next rich guy".

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Well there you go, we can't please women without having to look damn good and have a thick bank account, and why should I be thanking him? Life only just got 10x harder for us ugly/poor people.

Also, I too appreciate a woman who's willing to be there with me through thick and thin, which you often don't see nowadays. Why do girls have to be so shallow in a guy? and I doubt he would go broke if he got a big account and let alone his looks... I swear a stare in his face is enough for a girl to stay... I can't even do that I mean girls look at me and they would just ignore and run away. It hurts... a lot...
luvstoned4him

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@Asker no mean to sound cliche but there will be someone who will appreciate you one day. I just hope you won't be blinded to it. I said thank him because he is attracting away all the women "YOU DONT WANT"

Answer 2

Asker

Well there you go, we can't please women without having to look damn good and have a thick bank account, and why should I be thanking him? Life only just got 10x harder for us ugly/poor people.

Also, I too appreciate a woman who's willing to be there with me through thick and thin, which you often don't see nowadays. Why do girls have to be so shallow in a guy? and I doubt he would go broke if he got a big account and let alone his looks... I swear a stare in his face is enough for a girl to stay... I can't even do that I mean girls look at me and they would just ignore and run away. It hurts... a lot...

Answer 3

luvstoned4him

@Asker no mean to sound cliche but there will be someone who will appreciate you one day. I just hope you won't be blinded to it. I said thank him because he is attracting away all the women "YOU DONT WANT"

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