Just this week, I started seeing this guy who I had met a few years ago. Things didn’t end the best back then, but he messaged me wanting to reconnect. I waited a good 3 years, but then decided to give it another shot. Tbh, I never really got over him, and you can say I’m enamored by him (and I think he knows that). BUT after how he acted before, I find it so difficult to trust him. We saw each other for the past 5 nights in a row, and he is the one who invited me each night. However, last night felt different. He didn’t want to cuddle/make out the whole night like he had the other few nights. He seemed like he wanted me to leave earlier than usual so I did. When I was getting ready to leave, he told me he was going to talk with me tomorrow (which is now today). He also said he would see me when I got back (I’m going on a weekend trip.) But, it just felt like he was going to do the same thing all over again like years ago. So I told him I don’t trust him, and he told me he only has himself to blame for that. I sent him a message early this morning, because I really hate to play games. I want people to know how I feel. I am stressing about this situation, however. I feel like in a perfect world, without any of his past stressors, we would be the perfect match. What are your thoughts?
If he really wants to be with me, he will read my Facebook messages correct? Despite me telling him I don’t trust him last night, and being hesitant to hug/kiss him after that?
Update: He read my message and responded earlier today. He said we would decide on something to do on Monday. But he said I can’t worry about things.