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Lol I'm not a player
Keep it as simple as this : if he texts you quickly, he wants to talk to you; if he doesn't, either he really doesn't care much about talking to you or he's really busy. Typically even if a person is busy they will make an effort to talk somebody they really want to. Other than that trying to read into it is pointless.
U didn't answer my question..
I was the one who initiated the convo and he replied quick. So u think he wanted to talk to me?
I did in a more comprehensive way. You have to decide if him wanting to talk to you is good. I guess I could tell you your emotion. That's a good thing if you want to talk to him. I get the sense you might not like him texting you back quickly though because maybe it's seen as desperate or something. Whatever kind of game applies to that. That kind of stuff just hurts my head and I have to turn away.
Yes giving people our time will typically mean you want to talk to them. It's also a big sign of interest. if it's consistent. That's how I see it at least. There's nothing more valuable from a person than their time.
No I actually liked the fact that he responsed quick but what happened next was confusing
so the guy I'm interested in (who I was talking about in this question) After I noticed him watching constantly my story updates I decided to dm him. This is our actual conversation. What do you think of it:I responded to one of his story update that was about a new movie that he went to watch. I wrote him" Hi what do you think of the movie. I'm interested in watching it. What are your thoughts? "He replied to me quickly like in 2 mins. He was like "I thought it was a good movie and it was kinda dark. It isn't for all people. I was like" yeah that's what I thought too". That was the end of our conversation.Did he ghost me lol?
No he didn't ghost you. You didn't give him much to reply back with.
That was our first and last convo though :(
He still watches my updates
Do u think there's still hope? :Ddd
I'll explain to you how people think. Your first interactions are the most important for people. Usually people are trying to read into every detail they can in the beginning so that they can try to see if the person wants to talk to them. They don't want to feel like they are talking to the person and the person doesn't want to talk to them.What you replied to him with didn't give him much to naturally say back. He would have had to say something the might seem desperate to many. Most people are scared to appear that way.He watches your update. He replied back to you quickly. Yes, he'd probably be interested in talking to you. Next time give him something to respond back to.I've had girls respond back to me with horrible replies. Sometimes people aren't great with conversation 😂 I just have to help them along.
So it means nothing?
If you were talking to me, it wouldn’t mean a thing… I personally believe you should judge interest based on the nature of the conversation not the speed at which it happens.
I thought maybe that was a sign of interest
What do u think
Of course he is interested, but why so interested if you've only just met? Is he going to overlook the fact that you're a person for the fact that you're a female?
We haven't we just follow each other on instagram
So you haven't met.It's best NOT to overthink this little detail. It shows interest, yes. What kind of interest, we don't know yet.
I don't know this guy. Does he seem like a shy type? It's a good sign that he watches your story. Try messaging him in the evening 7/9pm
I think he is... But he didn't carry our conversation lol
He may not know what to say, or he got busy and forgot. I hear this complaint a lot that guys don't know how to carry a conversation.
Why do u think it's a good sign that he watches my updates? Some people saybit doesn't mean anything 😂
For me it would matter because I don't follow many people. If I'm following a girl I don't know, watching her story, and liking pictures here and there, it means I'm interested in her.If he follows a bunch of girls then it means less because he's not showing a preference.
Lol I need honest reply..
What do u mean?
Better you share your thoughts and see his replies then you get to know
Would u answer immediately if u didn't know the girl...
Yeah I reply If I am free or waiting for you
That was our first convo lol.. He wasn't expecting it
I mean not only he waits for you he may be waiting for someone else