Is being talkative an unattractive quality in a guy? (Page 2)

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P. s. I'm very talkative, it's how I vent, make banter, and express the stress and issues I'm having, I have a "talk it out" approach. I'm a social butterfly, usually the life of the party and always making people laugh, but always ask "what's stressing you out/ troubling you" as not everyone is as open with their problems as I am.

FlaviusStilicho · Answer

For women, I think it depends more on what about and how he talks. If it's whining, bragging on himself, or empty rambling, then she won't like it. If he's humorous, intelligent, and sweet-natured, then I don't think women mind.

Anonymous · Answer

It can be, more so when you are more of a talker than a listener. Girls like feeling heard and being understood. It is also hard if you constantly turn a topic back into relating to yourself, or even if we just want to drop the subject and you can't drop it and keep bringing it back up. it really depends on the type of talkative you are.

TemptressQueen87 · Answer

I always feel like I'm talking to myself because he doesn't talk much

rjroy3 · Answer

The difference between talkative and entertaining is being socially aware. To me, if people care about what you have to say. You're not bringing down the room. You're entertaining and people are happy to listen. Then it's not an unattractive trait.

perhapspeace · Answer

Depends. You shouldn't be so talkative that you over power the other person. You also shouldn't give one word responses. You need delicate balance where both parties can speak their mind.

alexisnotokay · Answer

Honestly, I'd rather have a guy who talked a lot over a guy who doesn't.

Seriously, my ex didn't know how to make conversation, nor did he know how to keep a conversation going. Yet, he was so clingy that he constantly wanted to talk to me on the phone. Drove me crazy. So many awkward moments,

Anonymous · Answer

I talk for a living so I enjoy being quiet for a change. Also, the more someone talks the more likely you are to learn information you normally wouldn't if they were quiet.

pigoat · Answer

My family hated me when i wouldn't shut up as a kid

happyhedgehog · Answer

I think being talkative is attractive unless it's too much and I can't get a word in.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Depends. It's a deal breaker if the guy never shuts up, but I'm okay if he's moderately talkative.

alice55 · Answer

I would say yes and no. I'm not one that like to talk so people that talk all the time bother me but they're also cool cause they can talk at my place and they're easy to talk to in general

Bellaboo01 · Answer

I think talkative is a great quality to have. Talking to a guy who has one word responses are boring. As long as you can also listen then I don't see that as unattractive.

Sweetnessxoxo · Answer

Lol no I need somebody to talk I'm too quiet at first

GloriaMc · Answer

I like how people talk about themselves they entertains me

itsmatty · Answer

depends on the person. if the person is interesting and charismatic then talking is a good thing. people who talk fast and use a lot of extra words come off as anxious and unattractive. people who talk a lot and don't listen tend to be annoying.

Ryan79269 · Answer

I'm a quiet guy I need a talkative out going girl to bring me out of my shell

R_Cakes91 · Answer

Only if he never shuts up

OddBeMe · Answer

Depends on the substance. If Einstein was talkative no one would care.

donnny2367764 · Answer

Only a fool talks too much non-sense or shares their entire life story to strangers... impresses no one in the end

NYCstreetPhotog · Answer

An expert conversationalist is the person that listens.

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