When a couple gets in the car together who is supposed to drive? The man or woman?

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I don't think it matters. I usually prefer to do the driving, provided that the guy isn't a backseat driver. I can't stand that; I'm a very safe driver (much better than the vast majority of the people who have acted as backseat drivers while in the car with me), and all someone screaming in my ear and giving conflicting advice does is confuse and distract me, and create a potentially dangerous situation. Honest to God, the next time someone does that or starts harping on my car because it's not a sports car (though it's still very nice and perfect for me), I'm going to dump their ass on the side of the road. Sorry for the rant.

[aicarg]

My boyfriend and I take turns honestly. Especially if we're off on a road trip so that we give eachother a chance to nap. However thinking about it more, he'll drive when we're downtown in the city as I HATE congestion, hate road side parking on busy streets, get so damn confused with where I'm going due to "one way streets"/ "streets where I can't drive through during certain times"/ damn road closures due to construction/a public event, crazy ass pedestrians - it just drives me insane! I tend to drive uptown in the suburban neighborhoods where it's slightly more calm 😬

[jabariw18]

How does it cause fighting when you don't drive? That should not be a fighting issue like at all. Not to judge but I think you need to reevaluate your relationship. Anyway, I personally don't think it matters who drives but when I was with my girlfriend I usually drove. It also depended on where we were going like... if she wanted to go to an event or something, we'd take her car and she would drive. If it was something general like grocery shopping we'd take my car and I'd drive.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you don't drive, IT causes a problem? What is the IT that causes a problem? Are you saying that YOU cause a problem if the guy wants to drive?

[zoeadams3]

On long road trips we split the driving. There is no point of driving past the fatigue point.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Depends on who vehicle it is that you are going in. If out at a restaurant, bar or somewhere else with alcohol and only the one who drove drinks then the other one should drive.

[Rob19777]

Depends on how comfortable she is with me driving since i have a tendency to drive fast. Lets just say I don't advice people to drive 110mph on the highway

[Likes2drive]

It was always me driving even if it was the car she normally drove, she didn’t really want to drive and since I drive for a living she never worried about my driving

[Anonymous]

C) The man drives and the woman complains about his driving despite his offers to have her drive instead, but observations of his poor sense of direction ensue which necessitates her not driving.

[Jlegacy]

If you are rich it doesn't matter who drives. Only poor people drag the steering.

[Lurdie]

Who's car is it? Who's paying for gas? Who wants to drive? I dont really think its a gender thing

[SexyAshh]

Id say the man.

But its because i hate driving lol

[0112358]

I end up driving more. Wife says she likes driving but actually doesn’t. I don’t like driving.

[ImagineSketchy]

Whoever wants to drive is the one who is supposed to drive. I don't like driving.

[EleanorRigby]

I like when others drive me so I can chill. He's free to drive all the time as far as I'm concerned

[TonyMetal_1986]

The man should drive but it's okay if thr wife drives a little but i prefer the man to drive cause he's a lot better than a woman in driving skills.

[codycccccccccc]

I wouldn't care unless were pulling a trailer or were driving the car I restored twice then I will be driving

[Pipeliner87]

Depending on road conditions. I feel that women dont react to imminent danger and they lock up. I on the other dont lock up. I react fast and with my ability to drive can avoid certain death.

[Ninjazzed]

There should be a third option that leaves it up to the individual couple.

[HoratioCaine]

doesn't matter. Whoever gets in the drivers seat first or has the keys i guess

[BillieJean1070]

Normally I let my date drive. If it's not a date and it's my car, I'll drive.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. I'm not very traditional at all, but I think I would like to be the driver.

[cth96190]

Who owns the car?
Who is too tired to drive?
Who has been drinking?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Gonna have to be HER because I do not have driver's license

[Anonymous]

Well it's pretty hot watching the guy drive so I don't mind that but i like driving so we share it mostly

[Skadouchebag]

I don't understand what the point is of even gendering the driver's seat is in he first place.

[crazy8000]

Couldn't care less. If she is a bad driver or doesn't have a license I drive un less it's to get better or practice.

[Ianto]

When married I preferred to drive. Only because, if my ex drove, I was too prone to make constructive comments which she perceived as criticism. 🙄

[_uck_uckGoose]

I prefer to drive because my boyfriend likes to drive fast and brake heavy lol. He also likes to drive though so switch.

[Orangeandturquoise]

No one is "supposed to drive".

Whoever is in the mood, the one that's sober in the case one isn't, should drive.

[Lightning8]

It doesn't matter; it's just a machine. If women can't work machines, have we really progressed?

[EABsTUQ]

What do you mean suppose? I'm confused. I mean whoever feels like driving can drive.

[MannMitAntworten]

Whoever's car we are in is typically who is driving. I am typically indifferent to this.

[Frankiealaplaaja]

I love to drive myself. So the 'always' would bother me I think.

[Omar5881]

Anyone why does it matter? Supposedly everyone should drive his car like if we came in her car she should drive and vice verse

[seniorghostman]

She drives. I never had to drive cause work was always within a half hour walk from home but that changed so I’m getting a license now.

[Lunatic1]

If she always drives, yes. If we take turns, then I am fine. That was a pet peeve I had with my most recent ex.

[esotericstory]

Its better for the woman to drive in my country because there is less change the police will stop female drivers.

[Badger101]

I don't like her driving, and I don't like not being in control. Anyone who's more comfortable

[jpalma]

The one that drives best so you don't kill the 3rd wheel XD

[SuccessfulHornDog]

She usually wants me to drive but sometimes I enjoy being the passenger. like when I'm exhausted

[gaurwaith]

the person who owns the car, or whoever uses it the most

[bulletbob555]

I would out of chivalry. I don't think it would matter to me if she drove from time to time.

[ask4any]

You should let the man drive. Perception is reality!!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Doesn't matter to me, I just know I won't let my girl drive my car.

[Nikunj70]

Depends
Who is good in driving skills,

Who wants to do fun & tease.. another seat...

[Browser101]

I used to always drive but I drive so much daily that I gladly ride passenger given the chance

[zagor]

Whoever owns the car drives, unless they are drunk.

[COMMODOREII]

It depends who wants to drive. I don't mind relaxing while she drives. Lol

[dnero]

Doesn't really matter who drives but for a woman to feel the need to be the one driving. I personally will not like u.

[lofii]

The one who isn't gonna make you grab the "oh shit" handle

[YHL6965]

Whoever owns the car or whoever wants to drive, who cares?

[CuriousMufuxka]

I voted man, but it depends on where we're going. Or if I drank.

[Rasheedw1]

Who's car you taking? That's who should drive lol 😀

[nikkinac]

My ex I always drove cause my car was better lol. Current partner doesn't drive

[MoscowMitch]

The man, duh. The woman is in charge of sandwiches and blowjobs.

[Rudon00]

I don't see why it matters. it does not make a difference for me.

[GreenGold1992]

I don't care who drives, as long as one of us does lol

[partyroy15]

I love to drive so just depends if the girl wanted to drive and she wasn’t dangerous haha then yes why not

[danrush]

The man because when the women are bitching he can just go full speed of a cliff

[ishan24sharma]

Anyone can drive, if they know how to and aren't drunk.

[Browneye57]

Tell us why you always drive.

[Secret6620]

Vote C. The best driver of the two. 💕

[Sha84]

owner or provider of car would be most logical drivers