It sounds like a very very low interest date. If a guy truly is incredibly hot she wouldn't choose a coffee date. Itd be a bar date.
Agreed. aren't coffee dates boring that are really nothing different than hanging out with a friend?
Ikr. If a guy suggest a coffee date I'm out. Lol I could grab a coffee with my mom too😂
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What if youve already had a date and its nit a first meeting?
It’s ok if you are trying to fit it in because of a busy schedule. Don’t understand purely a coffee break for people who are already dating
What if its a second date after a first date at a bar? Regression or not?
Not really. Quite often its just familiar ground or a good daytime meeting place.
Because there's no sexual tension compared to a bar
No sexual tension is asking to be in friendzone
No it's asking to get to know each other.
First date was at a bar. This is the second date
Second date with someone met online
If you're doing the coffee thing on the second date then it can be a bit tacky at that point and you might want to up your game a bit. the coffee thing is only good for a first date or initial meeting nothing more. like one other person said to test the waters
@Rob19777 I only like bar dates the first two dates. The coffee thing was her suggestion not mine. It was her counter proposal.
I suggested to get a slice of pizza. Its 4 dollars at a local place to chat. Near bars if we wanted to continue. She said she had plans. Then "how about coffee?" Uhmmmm...
no you only suggest a slice of pizza if you're already out with her on the actual date or rather after the actual date. the pizza only comes to extend the evening you have with her/extend the actual date if she's willing to. it's pretty basic and doesn't require a brain to figure that out. ie look at the movie creed where adonis takes his girl bianca to that hotdog place after their date that's what you want to do whether it be hot dogs or pizza or whatever bullshit you can think of
@Rob19777 the pizza place is near a bar. she's autistic and doesn't like noise. I wanted to talk to her with an easy date that wasn't expensive and didn't create long obligation. Then if she was comfortable ask for drinks. But I for sure wanted to be able to chat.
If you’re saying she’s autistic and doesn’t like noise, why are you trying to push this whole bar thing? “A date that wasn’t expensive and no long obligation” bro, she suggested coffee. That’s not expensive and doesn’t have a long obligation. And it’s quieter. You’re trying to invite her to a place near bars. Why would you think she’d want to be near a bar if you just said she doesn’t like noise? Selfish much.
@Angie221994 I gave up trying to help a while ago. he hasn't got a clue how any of this should work
no to fancy and to much pressure on the woman
What do you mean by anxious ppl?
look up the word anxious. that’s what i meant.