So knowing what I want isn't a bad thing?
Of course not. Even more so if you're more on the submissive end. How are you supposed to be able to entrust yourself to someone else if you do not know who and what you want that to be?But for every time you significantly limit things, be willing to put in a little effort. You do have to ask for your name-specific-hobby-specific person or it will be an awkward wait.
Ahhhhh I understand thanks very much
What I did feel comfortable or happy being dominant? Does that mean no one will want me?
That would not be it, that would be on you. There are women who prefer DOM men only, and then you have those that like men that are dom but also submit. Then you have also women, in this case the so called mistresses that like men that are completely submissive lol.
So I find someone who is only dominant and then I'm fine
Because I don't want a guy to expect or want me to take charge
i meant, that would NOT be on you, as in not your fault.. i mean, if you only prefer someone that's a DOM then sure, that;s fine, that is what you want.
Ohhh I seee well thanks for the response and advice
I don't want to go through that again
the men I had the most success with being real men and gentlemen, are older than me... average for me is 10+ years..If you want a real man that will complement and cherish you at your age, dont date guys younger or your age.At 18yo, i was dating a 36yo man...I am 25 now and my man is 47yo... He acts 30 and treats me like his woman and cherishes me and loves me... romance is something men have to "learn" and be reminded of daily... he works at it and is not perfect, but he takes care of me and tbh, he is dominate, but he is not abusive, controlling or mean.He seeks my opinion, but at the end of the day, he is the Head of the House and any decisions he makes, fall on his broad shoulders and he is responsible for them. He protects me and loves me and I feel safe in his presence and arms!Seek out your man by not being in a hurry and dont be shy when an older guy shows interest in you.P. s. They also know foreplay is important, necessary, and vital to keep a girl and keep her happy.Young guys I know are "wham bam thank you ma'am"... they get their orgasm and are DONE!!
That's what I want I need maturity. I'm just scared that dating someone older means they will physically hurt me more. If I get a bad one being abused by a 17year old I imagine is different to a fully grown man.
No I wouldn't I'd struggle to be happy
Well i think you answered your question then.
Ohhh I get it thank you
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That's true you make a good point I'd rather not settle its not me
Exactly, you would only be hurting yourself in the long run.
Ermm like a guy that's dominant I don't know how to explain it