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Didn’t you think it was wrong to date her knowing you didn’t like her? Even if you didn’t hVe sex, you Wasted a ton of her time.
@VIVANT You wouldn't say they if you met her. All the girls hate her and all the guys laughed at me. But yes I guess I wanted to say fuck you to the people who made fun of her etc but her personality was very tough to be around. It actually wasn't that long. Like 2-3months. But yeah like I said I was very hard for me to do. Because I felt like a horrible person and because I didn't like her. But she got value out of it. I was a fantasy. Value for value. I'd tell you all the reasons why I dated her in the first place but you'd think I was crazy. But yeah I would never do that again to someone.
Men with status and money prove that men's standards are high. Do you see them picking women they consider average or below average? No, they use their status and money to get the finiest women they want. 
Leo- 45. Girlfriend, Camila- 22
Johnny depp and amber before divorce.
Exactly! You nailed it ! 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Tbh that’s the problème with men, most of them don’t take care of themselves and look like crap but expect a model looking woman to love them for who they are, and to reject the good looking men or the successful men for them just because they’re nice lol.
When they talk about rejection they’re actually talking about the gorgeous women who are out of their leagues and who don’t want anything to do with them.
An average looking man will feel that he’s doing a favor to an average looking girl when he’s flirting with her.
They only hate that women have standards cause women have a larger dating pool than them, we carry ourselves better and we have make up, knowledge and cosmetics to enhance our looks, that’s what is actually pissing them off.
They give you a speech about inner beauty but if they had a choice between Megan Fox and Amy shummer, they won’t hesitate to choose Megan fox, even if the Amy shummer looking woman has a better personality.
Double standards at it finest
I don't think we have high standards at all. I mean of course men with fane and money have beautiful women. Everyone wants an attractive partner and if anyone can get one it's them.
When you look at the average guy. Who do you think has a harder time going to the club and pick someone up? An average guy or an average girl?
@Dali-chan I never saw in my life an average guy complaining that only hot girls didn't want him. I saw many complaining none wanted him.
That part about an average guy considering that he is doing an average girl a favor for flirting whit her is simply not true. Average girls get much more attention than average guys.
I blame us guys for that! There are so many desperate guys that they just end up giving attention to whoever wants it.
Amy Schumer has a good personality 😂😂😂😂😂. Ya, I doubt that. She isn't even funny. She just gets all the publicity because of what is between her legs. If you put her in megan fox's body I still wouldn't want to date her
Crap. Average women have always been more attractive than typical hot women. a lot of guys feel the same way and honestly. Average and even the below average women are worth it. But if course we always get painted as the shallow sex
@Chthou95 That's not crap at all and what you said doesn't make any sense. If average women where hotter than the typical hot chick then you would see more women that society considers average and below average in the modeling and film industry. Most women, everyday American women don't look like the two women i posted. This is what the average American woman looks like, black, white or other. 
This is what Hollywood promotes:
Now tell me, how often do you see the women like the girl i posted above in the media? There here and there now but still not as often like the girl below here.
@Dali-chan Tbh that’s the problème with men, most of them don’t take care of themselves and look like crap but expect a model looking woman to love them for who they are, and to reject the good looking men or the successful men for them just because they’re nice lol.
Exactly. When those exact words come out of our mouth, they're like.. the hell you talkin bout?
Aside from hair and clothing thr limited clothing guys can wear what can guys do? Most women wouldn't date a guy who wears makeup, yet also complain when guys judge them for wearing to much 😂.
When women say they want guys who look good they are basically saying they want a guy who naturally looks good, yet how many women naturally look good? Almost non. If women want guys that look good either they have to be more open to makeup and different clothing styles or stop wearing makeup themselves to level the playing field, because let's be honest most of those women who you say are out of the guys league are ownly that way when they wear makeup.
@nathanp97 what the hell are you talking about? Most women don't want dudes who wear make up cause most guys who do are dudes that look like this. 
Plus most straight guys aren't wearing make up anyway, and if you actually looked around... most women aren't wearing make up these days. A lot of everyday women are in fact wearing little to no make up at all, i don't even wear make up anymore.. most of the women i see at work and outside of work aren't wearing make up. The most makeup i see women wearing these days are lipstick/lipgloss and maybe some mascara and that's it. other wise they're wear non. And i can spot when a girl is wearing make up not no matter how little or intense it is. This is what you guys are use to seeing online, build boards, magazines and tv. 
This is what everyday women really look like:
plus i see men with tons of women, everyday who are not wearing make so again... what the hell are you talking about?
I'm talking about how women don't have to look good genetically because they can just hide their physical flaws. Men can't, so they have to look good naturally, while women don't have to. Women expect men to look good, but the average guy doesn't, and unlike girls we don't have any other opinions. You basically just proved my point. + most guys would go for that girl in the photo😂
@nathanp97 dude i see more women with average below average men than i see men with below average women... okay... so again what are you talking about. I see plenty of women with short, fat, balding, weird looking ass dudes... and these men still want beautiful top tier women.
My point is those women are only better looking because of the makeup, and if they are better looking the guy is probably rich. I see way more women dating up than men.
The man tends to have more money, be more successful and more funny. Looks aren't everything. So guess who's really picky.
@nathanp97 lies, there's plenty of natural beautiful women without make up and you know that. You're trying to make seem like if those two women i posted above removed their make up they would end up looking like shrek in the face and you and i know that's not true. Seems to me that you are envious of women and hate that we can get men with or without makeup and you can't but with the opposite sex.
Lol, I'm not saying they would look like shrek, but you seem to think the average man does. Lots of women only look as good as they do because of make up and have those same standards of looks for men, but expect them not to wear makeup. And not only that they have standards that the guy has to be stronger, smarter, more successful, richer and funnier. So even if guys want a better looking girl they are still expect to have all those things. Looks aren't everything, and lots of guys prefer average girls because they actually have personality. So women are more picky because of all the other things they want
@BrittBratt2416 I also noticed that tho. Us women tend to be more forgiving in the look area. That’s why we see so many ugly old farts hitting on attractive women who are half their age, they think that the reason why some attractive women on their range age don’t reject them is simply because they aged like Clooney whole they’re nothing but ugly moids.
A woman is more likely to date a Below average looking guy with an amazing personality who loves her dearly over a good looking jerk, but many guys are truly willing to marry a crazy bitch as long as she’s hot.
Women crave security more, so they think that an old ugly man will be grateful and have a bigger heart. Wrong! They are usually worse.
Men are more shallow and they even admit that they’re visual creatures and yet they have the nerves to call us picky and superficial when we start having some standards lol
Because the media is superficial and only focuses on what they think is attractive. But in the dating world everything is subjective. You're acting like guys only date models or want everything perfect. Girls always say guys are desperate for anything. Well that includes a variety of women guys chase. Guys chase After all kinds of girls depending on the guy. And a lot of guys don't expect a mode. That's just women trying to paint themselves on the less superficial sex. Girls do the same thing too and are no angels. But you don't have to be a model to be wanted by a guy
There’s a difference between fucking and marrying.
Guys will easily hookup with an ugly woman, if there’s no other woman around, but when it comes to marriage and commitment, they will be hella picky! They just don’t settle for model looking women because they can’t!
The main comment even said that the reason why men’s standards are low is when they have been rejected too much, or don’t have access to the women they want or are desperate.
But give them money and power and you’ll see them with a barbie looking woman.
@Chthou95 Honey that's because a lot y'all do want to date hot perfect women. it's not a lie. We know, you tell us all the damn time. When y'all look at porn do you think men are looking up the most basic ass women to jerk off to? No, they going for the model, Instagram bad bitch looking women. Do you think guys are spanking it to this kind of girl: 
or this kind of girl
:https://www. dhresource. com/600x600/f2/albu/g6/M00/A3/98/rBVaSFvEo2SAYAtZAADbs8AG-ls507. jpg
I think we know the answer.
Are you that insecure that you think every guy thinks the same or watches the same shit lol. It's like you really want to make it look like every guy jerks off and fantasisez about typical hotties. And G@G opinions are a lot different from reality. Not every guy is after the same thing. I maybe human, but it doesn't mean I'm a robot that's programmed to just chase after 8s, 9s or 10s.
@Chthou95 no, you're assuming im insecure. Yes, we all know men like different types of women.. nobody is saying that men don't have different taste in women. However, we do see what majority of men like to see when it comes to women... we're not blind nor stupid.
Yes and a majority like other things. You just pay attention to the superficial aspects.
@Chthou95 we all do lol Listen dude im not as mad you think. I have man, it is what it is lol
@Chthou95 ... how did they create you? 0.0 how did can you have a brain and a robot. Who sent you?
oofff i mean how can you have a brain and be a robot? Humans have brains not robots.
I'm a one of a kind robot. Built with a subconscious to think for myself. I was created by Skynet 😂
There’s a difference between fucking someone and thinking about a relationship with them.
When men says that they don’t care about looks, they actually talk about where they’re going to put their penis in, but when it comes to a monogamous relationship, having kid and mariage, they will be the pickiest freaks.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now! @itsaed_94 I don't mind sharing them. Some of my answers to questions here bring one or more of them up so it's no big secret.
It's a bit complicated to list them though because they are standards I spent years deciding on, plus there are also rules governing whether I'm allowed to have them. But basically:
There are 4 personality requirements and 1 physical requirement. The personality traits may only be requirements if I embody them as well. The physical requirement is only acceptable so long as it's something the girl can change.
1. Believes in the concept of mutual happiness in relationships i. e. both partners place their happiness and opinions at the same level of value as the other's own (no one's happiness is more important); never going through with a decision/action that makes them alone happy, but hurts their partner's feelings. Sorry, this is not a concept I can summarize well in two or three sentences.
2. Likes to give, and receive lots of attention.
3. Introvert or ambivert. Not a wild, party or club goer who can't imagine spending a day in.
4. Communicative i. e. no secrets, total honesty, and directness. Talks about issues and problems so they can be resolved. Never suffers in silence or expects me to be a mind reader.
5. Has the one physical feature I care about.
@itsaed_94 Actually I came up with no. 1 because from my observation, most people seem against it. People seem to have this idea that if you love someone, you'll let them do what makes them happy, even if what they do hurts you. In fact, it's even expected that you should be happy for them instead; like your feelings or opinions don't matter. I reject that idea.
I've also seen a lot of people here (on GAG) and elsewhere reject no.2 and 4. No.2 is seen as clingyness and that's apparently wrong or a huge turn-off. People seem to reject no. 4 out of some (ridiculous in my opinion) view that relationships should have mystery.
As for no.5; I have a real weakness for girls with (very) long hair. I picked this as a requirement because I realized that I would want to look only at my partner (and would hope she'd want to look only at me). While short hair doesn't make a girl ugly, I know that if my partner didn't have it, I'd be admiring it on random women instead. I'm not okay with that. Sorry if this seems shallow, but I figure it should be allowed if I only get to choose one physical requirement, and am bound by the rules that come with it.
To me those were normal standards but by your explanation I can see why they are high standards to you.
It's ridiculous how people see too much attention as clingyness. I love attention and give it 10x more when it is given to me. It's essential in relationships. And what's with that mystery to relationships? Honesty and open communication is what makes a relationship strong and builds up trust. And you're right about the mutual happiness thing. Love should not be selfish. As for, no5, I like that requirement. 😊 Seems like you can't resist them. Can't blame ya, they look beautiful. I have short hair but like the long hair more. If having a partner with short hair would make you look at another long haired girl with lust, and eventually feel bad after it then its best for you to date only long haired girls.
@itsaed_94 It's not so much that I'd look at long-haired women with lust. This preference isn't really a sexual thing. When I was trying to figure out why I cared so much about it, the best I could do was compare it to roses. Roses are beautiful but many people think they are most beautiful when in full bloom. So in this case it would be like having a rose that doesn't bloom when you thought that it would. You don't throw away the rose, but you do end up admiring the roses in full bloom that you see, which makes you think of your own rose and wonder why it won't bloom, what can you do to make it bloom, etc.
It's not a sexual thing because I know that if I married a long-haired woman and she lost her hair due to age or health issues (something beyond her control), I wouldn't go out and cheat on her, or divorce her for a woman with long hair. I understand that beauty fades or can even suddenly disappear due circumstances. But while we have control, I'd like to look good for my partner, and for her to want to look good for me (at least in the areas we care about the most).
Hehe, we kinda went off on a tangent here. My apologies to the asker ^^
And that is why I don't do one night stands or casual sex. I'd feel cheap! Like I was giving away something that meant a lot to me! I'd also maybe get wrongly attatched to the wrong person! Like a jerk/ass hole that I wouldn't normally have dated! ... It's hard! ... Some guys standards in my humble opinion are ridiculously high (fat/obease arse drooling over a Baywatch babe and hoping for something special!). It's hilarious!
@SueAnon84 those guys will stay naturally single anyway or pay hookers, cause they can't attract the girls they drool over.
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