I asked a girl out yesterday at around 9 PM, but she has not answered yet! What should I do, text her again or just ignore it and try again later?
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You could either ignore her and pretend your life is too busy or socially full that you lost track of having to text her (and risk looking like you don't care) or you can stick it out for a few days and be really happy when she texts you.
Normally texting or calling immediately is interpreted as desperation, but sometimes the other person would prefer it if you were immediate. Think about it - would you prefer it if she text back right away, or would you prefer her to wait?
If you are getting twitchy try 'faking' one of those annoying chain texts, or a joke, or something you could make look like you have forwarded to several people or your entire contact list. This way you can indirectly text her and make it look like an accident. If you get nothing back you can wait for a bit and then text her commenting on the text you sent previously, apologising if you think it went bad, or wondering about if she got it or not. Try employing Ye Olde Technique 'I'm not sure if my service is messed up, did you get my previous message?'
Either way, you'll find out if she likes you enough to text back or not.
Good luck, and have fun. :)1
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