My boyfriend and I split about three months ago and I’m really missing him lately. He was the first person who really understood me and respected me. I don’t even really know why we split up because it all happened so fast and a million emotions went through my head. We only dated a few months and talked a month or so before that. So he was a big part of my life that no one else can seem to replace. I’d really like another go at our relationship but I don’t know if he feels the same. I’ve reached out to exes in the past and many i am still close friends with, so I don’t know why I’m so nervous. Should I take a risk and go for it or save myself a little heartache in case I get rejected again? If I do go for it, what should I say? I don’t want to tell him I miss him because that’s weak and desperate sounding but I really really do.