What’s a bad personality to you?
Someone incredibly overbearing. Or someone who constantly looks to blame the other side w/o any introspection. Men don't really function to emotions as much, so trying to appeal to their more logic centered brain is a good way to connect. If you find the right guy, he'll in turn want to appeal to you. Being in a relationship is a two person team effort. There will be hits and misses, but persistence is key to finding someone. Keeping someone requires understanding and feeding the others' needs.So I hope you find the right one, because you would be surprised about how compassionate and caring men can be and it is best for both yourself and society to establish a precedent that both men and women can love each other and be happy on both sides. Men can be caring and compassionate. We men just express it differently and generalizing men based on "bad apples spoil the whole bunch" ideation will only further deter you. Sure, there's a lot of bad guys out there, but there's also wonderful people out there too.Good luck and have a nice day!
By overbearing what do you mean?
I have flaws but I don’t think I look quite like Shrek...
Well Shrek is the extreme case, I doubt many women look like him, my point is I'd need to see you if I'm gonna give an opinion on whether a guy would f*ck himself instead of you.
I mean he has f*cked me a few times.
Oh? And how many times had he f*cked hismelf?
That I don't know...
Just wonder why I'm not worthy of more with him.
Hah well you need to find out which one was better...But in all seriousness I still think you won't get any good answers with the way you asked that question ( no details on the relationship, and no photo of you for anyone to give opinions)
I have time to go into it with you if you like to talk in private, but you're anonymous so you need to text first
Ok you want to PM?
Yeah sure, hit me up
Just followed you
If he doesn't want a relationship, is it a personal issue with me?
It could be you, or he could just not be looking for a relationship rn. Guys who just want to hook up usually try to stick with girls who just want to hook up. They don’t want a girl to get attached to them.
We have had sex several times, but I'm pretty sure he knows what my goal is...
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We have had sex many times. But, he keeps me at a distance. He only messages me through FB, even though he could text if he wanted. He also has his chat set, so that he has to intentionally go in and open it so that my message will get 'Delivered.' It feels like he keeps me at arm's length, even though it seems great when we spend time together. I worry that I am too boring in the messages I send or something, but there's not a lot I can communicate when he takes forever to reply. He rarely even gets out of the house. I know he's not seeing other girls, and he does not do a lot outside of the house in general. Andddd he knows I really really like him...
That's crazy.When I had a woman and we were having sex we were inseparable.I wanted to be with her always.We moved in together at 21.Maybe your man has a fear if commitment and relationships in general?I'm sorry that he's not reciprocating your love.
He was in a relationship 4 years ago, but I'm not sure of the reason it ended. I just want to know if there is something wrong with me. :/
I'd have to take a look at you, bit you're probably fine.These days everyone is so distracted by technology and porn that they hardly have the attention span for a real relationship.I hope you find a guy that values you.
In what ways?
Being introvert can make you expend energy around other people.Being around someone else necessitates the wearing of the polite mask we use for interacting with others, when you're alone there no social pressure on you to talk or be entertaining or whatever else.
Why? What is wrong with a girl who actually wants to be with you? Lol
If you ain't hot, that's what's wrong
What's your idea of hot?
If we have had sex a lot of times, do you think he thinks I'm not hot?
Guys will take what they can get
Good to know. 🙄