we went out for a second date, we really spoke more than we normally do, no longer as tense as the first date which I thought was cool, she suggested we share a dessert.. She initiated a hug when the date ended, My question is does she like me, or just sees me as a friend?
A bit puzzled after the second date?
What Girls Said 2
She likes you a lot. How do I know? Because I'm the same. If I really like a guy I would wait for him to initiate all the texting and act like a man.0
Ask her for a 3rd date, then a 4th, and so on and you will eventually have your answer. Nothing you describe would answer that question for me because I have had that same experience and had it go nowhere and other times, eventually lead to love.0
What Guys Said 3
Show her your sexual side, don't do only things that would constitute you as a friend. Of course you should be friend-like, giving her hugs and telling her jokes and complimenting her, but you should also show your "sexual side", just a tiny bit in the beginning. Reach for her hand when you're sitting together, give her a more "intimate" hug, these are usually the more tame things you can do before you start kissing her, at which point you should do even more intimate things.
But yea until you kiss her build it up with body contact, touch her arm, hold her hand, give her a "good" hug, get really close and hold her and touch her like someone who's interested. Don't be too shy to touch her she probably wants you to.0
I'm leaning more towards "she likes you". Question is, are you ready and willing to escalate this to a relationship when the moment presents itself..? Like if she leans in just close enough for a kiss, or if you guys go on the worst date ever and you guys make the best of it.. What are you thoughts about all those areas that could potentially happen?
She's clearly interested. Go on a third date and see what's she up to for dating.0
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