Exactly, abuse & neglect can impact a person’s life especially if it started in their childhood to their adulthood life. It can create unwanted emotions that can destroy the persons mind (ptsd) even if the person has tried to alleviate their tension between the abuser & the abuser wants no part of it. It can have a negative affect on the victim relationship with their parents & siblings. Especially if the siblings witnessed the abuse & did nothing to help. I can go into details about this forever, but this shouldn’t affect their relationship with the person they are wanting to date. The person they are wanting to date should accept their decision & don’t judge or force their opinions & actions on what they believe. Because it isn’t their fault everyone wasn’t raised the same way some people went through difficult & abusive childhoods that does affect their adulthood (undiagnosed disorders).
I have a huge family. I do not attend gatherings on a regular at all. Sometimes you have to give time to those who have given you time. That is always ok.
Hell as in abuse then yes!
Thanks for the most helpful opinion 😀
No problem, you were thinking what I was thinking.
How fortunate. There is hope for us survivors in finding a relationship full of mutual love!
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